Evolving78
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^^^ it looks like a soft set too! i love it!
^^^ it looks like a soft set too! i love it!
Relaxed Hair Thread
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Mische
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I planned on relaxing at 14 weeks but I waited until this past Friday to check and see if I had enough relaxer (cause I was 99% sure I did) and now my relaxer fate is in the hands of bluebeez.com shipping...
@LaidBak I like. The soft curls look really nice. I can't believe you were in and out in an hour!
@ScorpioLove I know you said you wanted it to be a little more processed looking, but I think your texture looks pretty wet and dry! I don't have any experience on correctives though, hopefully someone can chime in on that one.
I planned on relaxing at 14 weeks but I waited until this past Friday to check and see if I had enough relaxer (cause I was 99% sure I did) and now my relaxer fate is in the hands of bluebeez.com shipping...
@LaidBak I like. The soft curls look really nice. I can't believe you were in and out in an hour!
@ScorpioLove I know you said you wanted it to be a little more processed looking, but I think your texture looks pretty wet and dry! I don't have any experience on correctives though, hopefully someone can chime in on that one.
ElegantElephant
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What type of ceramides are you using? How are you using them? The ceramides thread has mostly natural responses and I'm relaxed. I bought wheat germ oil, but unsure how to use it on my relaxed hair.
What type of ceramides are you using? How are you using them? The ceramides thread has mostly natural responses and I'm relaxed. I bought wheat germ oil, but unsure how to use it on my relaxed hair.
Nix08
Relaxed, 4B
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I use wgo in my steam treatments (along with avocado oil) each and every time. Gives my hair a great shine
I use wgo in my steam treatments (along with avocado oil) each and every time. Gives my hair a great shine
LaidBak
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I know you weren't asking me, but I LOVES me some ceramides.
I use ceramide oils mixed in with conditioners when I DC, or I use them alone as a HOT. I also use them as a nightly sealant. I also mix a few drops into my bottle of liquid leave in. Anything you normally do with oil, just substitute a ceramide oil.
simplyconfident
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Thanx ladies.
I'm sorry I forgot to state in my previous post that I was looking for tips/suggestions on how to improve my flat iron skills. I can self relax very well...but flat ironing is another story.
I'm going to try using Redken Smooth Down heat protectant serum next go round instead of oils and go in smaller sections. I went back through my hair tonight (bad I know) and lightly flatironed using a the heat protectent and my hair already looks 75% better. Prior to this, one of my cowokers actually said my hair looked like The Lion King today. Lmao. It was all in good fun, but needles to say that's why I tried to re flatiron tonight.
My phone won't let me right now,but I'll try and post before and after pics tommorow.
I'm sorry I forgot to state in my previous post that I was looking for tips/suggestions on how to improve my flat iron skills. I can self relax very well...but flat ironing is another story.
I'm going to try using Redken Smooth Down heat protectant serum next go round instead of oils and go in smaller sections. I went back through my hair tonight (bad I know) and lightly flatironed using a the heat protectent and my hair already looks 75% better. Prior to this, one of my cowokers actually said my hair looked like The Lion King today. Lmao. It was all in good fun, but needles to say that's why I tried to re flatiron tonight.
My phone won't let me right now,but I'll try and post before and after pics tommorow.
Ms. Tiki
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I use WGO, Hemp, Safflower, Sunflower, Grapeseed, Macadamia, and Avocado. I used them to steam, HOT, sealing, in my moisture mix, to mix with my ayurvedic powders, add in conditioner. You name it and I probably use it for that purpose.
I use WGO, Hemp, Safflower, Sunflower, Grapeseed, Macadamia, and Avocado. I used them to steam, HOT, sealing, in my moisture mix, to mix with my ayurvedic powders, add in conditioner. You name it and I probably use it for that purpose.
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Also, Rusk Smoother was very good as a non-oil moisturizer for t-shirt drying.
I'll do better next time, I'll use more clips and do smaller sections .. we'll see how my bantus turn out in the morning.
@shortdub78 thanks for this, I tried blow drying for the first time tonight and this helped. I think I did ok, I definitely need more practice because it was awkward holding the dryer and brush. I'm also glad I bought both a vented and a round brush, I couldn't get the vented brush through my hair at all until I passed the round one through a couple times. That's what I get for being too lazy to co-wash and detangle for almost two weeks.
Also, Rusk Smoother was very good as a non-oil moisturizer for t-shirt drying.
I'll do better next time, I'll use more clips and do smaller sections .. we'll see how my bantus turn out in the morning.
Evolving78
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hey ladies! during your stretch, are you using a detangler to detangle your hair on wash day? i don't really detangle my hair too much. i just run my fingers through, since i put conditioner on first. should i detangle with something first, then add my conditioner?
and if you stretch for over 8-10 weeks, when do you thoroughly detangle your prior to your touch up.
i am shoot for 10 weeks first to see how my hair will react to stretching. i was thinking of buying Mane and Tail Detangler.
hey ladies! during your stretch, are you using a detangler to detangle your hair on wash day? i don't really detangle my hair too much. i just run my fingers through, since i put conditioner on first. should i detangle with something first, then add my conditioner?
and if you stretch for over 8-10 weeks, when do you thoroughly detangle your prior to your touch up.
i am shoot for 10 weeks first to see how my hair will react to stretching. i was thinking of buying Mane and Tail Detangler.
4evershika
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I use Hemp Seed Oil as either a pre-poo or mixed into my deep conditioner...
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I'm loving how big and thick my hair is right now at 9 weeks post and I love the way my new growth feels.. super coily, I can't keep my hands out of my head. I don't remember feeling distinct coils in my new growth when I was relaxed back in the day.
But now that I think about it, I didn't use conditioner back then (insane). That old school Creme of Nature shampoo probably saved my hair from falling completely out. I was also over processed with a supa perm (cause you know I had that "coarse hair"
).. so I'm sure all that had to contribute to the health/appearance of my new growth.
I'm loving how big and thick my hair is right now at 9 weeks post and I love the way my new growth feels.. super coily, I can't keep my hands out of my head. I don't remember feeling distinct coils in my new growth when I was relaxed back in the day.
But now that I think about it, I didn't use conditioner back then (insane). That old school Creme of Nature shampoo probably saved my hair from falling completely out. I was also over processed with a supa perm (cause you know I had that "coarse hair"
).. so I'm sure all that had to contribute to the health/appearance of my new growth.
HauteHippie
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I don't really use a detangler before I wash my hair, but I do use Mane and Tail Detangler a couple times a week. Even though I'm relaxed now, I still "water my hair". I rarely get a lot of tangles, though, and whatever I get the running shower water seems to handle just fine. Nowadays my hair feels very moisturizer most of the time. The only thing I did was switch to Silk Dreams products a few months back. I love that and Mane & Tail.
Historically, and recently, I've relaxed at twelve weeks. I have gone longer a few times, but that was preLHCF. My hair was braided and it wasn't a problem. I guess I don't thoroughly detangke at all, I just try to detangle regularly.
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sunnieb
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shortdub78 - I just finished a 15 week stretch. I
When I cowashed with WEN conditioners, I didn't have to use a detangler. But, when I dc'd or used my HE and Garnier, I had to use Mane n' Tail detangler. That stuff really works!
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When I cowashed with WEN conditioners, I didn't have to use a detangler. But, when I dc'd or used my HE and Garnier, I had to use Mane n' Tail detangler. That stuff really works!
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Nix08
Relaxed, 4B
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Here is an incredibly stupid question...when do you use the detangler? I don't use one...do you use a detangler if you want to detangle in the shower?
I don't try and detangle or anything until after my wash and I do it as my hair is drying with my fingers.
Here is an incredibly stupid question...when do you use the detangler? I don't use one...do you use a detangler if you want to detangle in the shower?
I don't try and detangle or anything until after my wash and I do it as my hair is drying with my fingers.
sunnieb
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Nix08
1. I cowash/wash/dc
2. Lightly blot hair with towel
3. Apply ORS carrot oil
4. Apply NTM silk touch
5. Begin detangling. If I can comfortably separate my hair with my fingers, I don't use a detangler. If my hair looks like a spider web, I spray the detangler and massage it in. I then comb gently.
6. Apply rusk smoother to detangled hair.
7. Set hair for airdrying (scarf method or rollerset)
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1. I cowash/wash/dc
2. Lightly blot hair with towel
3. Apply ORS carrot oil
4. Apply NTM silk touch
5. Begin detangling. If I can comfortably separate my hair with my fingers, I don't use a detangler. If my hair looks like a spider web, I spray the detangler and massage it in. I then comb gently.
6. Apply rusk smoother to detangled hair.
7. Set hair for airdrying (scarf method or rollerset)
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Evolving78
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^^^the one i have is by Mizani and costs $10-$20 dollars. do you have a clarifying shampoo to use?
^^^the one i have is by Mizani and costs $10-$20 dollars. do you have a clarifying shampoo to use?
Evolving78
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sunnieb
you should try a french braid in the back with a pretty clip!
i wonder how can i wear my hair like this all of the time? this is a nice everyday style and it helps keep my hands out of it. should i airdry or roller set to get my hair straight then, braid it?
sunnieb
you should try a french braid in the back with a pretty clip!
i wonder how can i wear my hair like this all of the time? this is a nice everyday style and it helps keep my hands out of it. should i airdry or roller set to get my hair straight then, braid it?
sunnieb
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shortdub78 - I have to try something. I'm sitting here with a ponytail right now trying to see how I'm going to wear my hair tomorrow.
It's funny that I put in so much time and effort to have healthy hair, but I can't do all of these styles I see. I am so style-challenged, I can't even do a simple pin curl set!
I'll try the braid and let you know how it works out.
shortdub78 - I have to try something. I'm sitting here with a ponytail right now trying to see how I'm going to wear my hair tomorrow.
It's funny that I put in so much time and effort to have healthy hair, but I can't do all of these styles I see. I am so style-challenged, I can't even do a simple pin curl set!
I'll try the braid and let you know how it works out.
simplyconfident
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These are pics from my first flatiron attempt. BIG BIG hair lol
Here is my ponytail shot after I re flatironed. I forgot to take a pic of it while being down. Much better.
Here is my ponytail shot after I re flatironed. I forgot to take a pic of it while being down. Much better.
Loving
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crlsweetie912
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I have been wearing my hair out for the past 3 weeks....:faint:
Most people I know don't think I have any hair! I can't remember the last time (if Ever) I wore my hair out that long......Tonight I will wash and dc overnight, and it's back to updo's......I saw too much hair when I combed it out last night.....
I have been wearing my hair out for the past 3 weeks....:faint:
Most people I know don't think I have any hair! I can't remember the last time (if Ever) I wore my hair out that long......Tonight I will wash and dc overnight, and it's back to updo's......I saw too much hair when I combed it out last night.....
ReignLocks
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I'm 9 weeks post but I don't feel a need to do long term stretching. I think I'm gonna relax at 10 weeks. Maybe push it to 12 weeks next time and make that the normal thing.
That's all I can think of.. I had a fresh start relaxing virgin hair about four months ago, that probably factors in as well.
I'm 9 weeks post but I don't feel a need to do long term stretching. I think I'm gonna relax at 10 weeks. Maybe push it to 12 weeks next time and make that the normal thing.
@ReignLocks Not overprocessing my relaxers and using good conditioners. I also rarely use heat so my new growth is large and in charge unless I cowash often
That's all I can think of.. I had a fresh start relaxing virgin hair about four months ago, that probably factors in as well.
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TheNDofUO
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I use a prescribed antibacterial antidandruff shampoo as my clarifying as its quite stripping.. I'm looking in the <$10 range
I use a prescribed antibacterial antidandruff shampoo as my clarifying as its quite stripping.. I'm looking in the <$10 range
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TheNDofUO
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Thanks
I saw it in the BSS near my house but I wasn't sure, and the girl working there didn't even know what a chelator was . Life is hard, sometimes
Thanks
I saw it in the BSS near my house but I wasn't sure, and the girl working there didn't even know what a chelator was . Life is hard, sometimesRe: Relaxed Hair THREAD!!
Alright @sunnieb .. I'm trying a modified version one of your air dry methods tonight. I washed, saturated my wet hair in Rusk Smoother, sealed it with EV coconut oil, t-shirt dried for 10-15 mins. I then added GVP Silk Remedy.. I was a little heavy handed with all the products I think cause my hair felt kind of greazzy
It's blingin though and detangling my new growth was a breeze I put my hair in four ponytails and twisted them. We'll see how it turns out in the morning
For detangling alone Rusk Smoother on wet hair is a keeper at 10 weeks post. I could stretch longer with this regi if I wanted to.
Side note: I'm always pleasantly surprised by the results I get from Aubrey GPB. I don't do a serious DC with it, just leave it in for 5 minutes in rinse and there's instant strength and softness
Alright @sunnieb .. I'm trying a modified version one of your air dry methods tonight. I washed, saturated my wet hair in Rusk Smoother, sealed it with EV coconut oil, t-shirt dried for 10-15 mins. I then added GVP Silk Remedy.. I was a little heavy handed with all the products I think cause my hair felt kind of greazzy
It's blingin though and detangling my new growth was a breeze I put my hair in four ponytails and twisted them. We'll see how it turns out in the morning For detangling alone Rusk Smoother on wet hair is a keeper at 10 weeks post. I could stretch longer with this regi if I wanted to.
Side note: I'm always pleasantly surprised by the results I get from Aubrey GPB. I don't do a serious DC with it, just leave it in for 5 minutes in rinse and there's instant strength and softness
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