Relaxed Hair Thread

[Evolving78]

they carry Silicon Mix an another dominican brand at a bss around my house. i think i am going to buy and try the SM treatment this weekend. i want to try it on my DD and see if it gives her a lot of slip. if it works for her, then hopefully it will work for my new growth when that kicks in.

i just used QH garlic shampoo and i like it. even though it is clear, it didn't give my a stripped feeling. i am going to continue to strengthen my hair, so if i do decide to go to a stylist for my next touchup, my hair will be in tip top shape. i don't think i will let her style my hair, just do the relaxer process. i will just go home with a plastic cap on my head. when i got my hair done last summer, the girl was very gentle. if she is there, i might try her again.

 

[SuchaLady]

I'm getting a weave next week. Over this

 

[niknakmac]

I hate when I buy a new product and it just dries out my hair. I had to load my hair up with stay so soft rub in and olive oil. I should just stick to what I know works. 11 weeks post and counting.

 

[ghanagirl23]

Hey ladies I want to know do you guys oil or creams to mostiure and which brands

also what shampoo do you use for clarifying ? I had in a sew in for 6 weeks took it out today washed my hair with aphogee gheeze my hair was sooooo dry it I lost so much hair detangling I did follow up with a deep condition but still

 

[Evolving78]

Hey ladies I want to know do you guys oil or creams to mostiure and which brands

also what shampoo do you use for clarifying ? I had in a sew in for 6 weeks took it out today washed my hair with aphogee gheeze my hair was sooooo dry it I lost so much hair detangling I did follow up with a deep condition but still

i use mizani chelating, kera care 1st lather, ors creamy aloe. you need a moisturizing shampoo. try creme of nature argan oil shampoo. also, oils nourish the hair and seal moisture in, but they don't moisturize. water based moisturizers, leave-ins, and conditioners moisturize. there is a method called
LOC (liquid,oil,cream). i use a liquid moisturizer (wave nouveau moisturizing mist), coconut oil, and cantu leave-in as my cream.

did u detangle first after removing your sew-in? be careful with aphogee products. they are full of protein. what did you deep condition with?

 

[Lilmama1011]

Hey ladies I want to know do you guys oil or creams to mostiure and which brands

also what shampoo do you use for clarifying ? I had in a sew in for 6 weeks took it out today washed my hair with aphogee gheeze my hair was sooooo dry it I lost so much hair detangling I did follow up with a deep condition but still

since it was so dry I think you should pre poo first to get some extra moisture before shampooing

 

[ghanagirl23]

i use mizani chelating, kera care 1st lather, ors creamy aloe. you need a moisturizing shampoo. try creme of nature argan oil shampoo. also, oils nourish the hair and seal moisture in, but they don't moisturize. water based moisturizers, leave-ins, and conditioners moisturize. there is a method called
LOC (liquid,oil,cream). i use a liquid moisturizer (wave nouveau moisturizing mist), coconut oil, and cantu leave-in as my cream.

did u detangle first after removing your sew-in? be careful with aphogee products. they are full of protein. what did you deep condition with?

yeah I made sure to detangle I have creme of nature argan oil shampoo and conditioner and the leave in I have cantu but I dont know know it leaves feels my hair feeling sticky

I used the africas best conditioner

I think I will just co wash my hair today

 

[ghanagirl23]

since it was so dry I think you should pre poo first to get some extra moisture before shampooing

okay thank you will do next time

 

[Britt]

Only 6 weeks post. I have been washing twice a week and airdrying. I kinda prefer my airdried hair as it makes my hair look thicker. If I want it super silky I'll rollerset it. Gonna wash and airdry later on this evening. Love the feeling of clean hair and scalp.

 

[ScorpioLove]

i wish there was a way to grow my nape extra fast. its only like 4-6 inches long because most of it broke off at some point last year. its my fault though. i should not let others detangle my hair. i just hate how my hair looks from the back.
my nape stays frizzy even with a flat iron. it doesnt take well to perms. like its just a patch of hair that is way off from everyone else

 

[Saludable84]

Why has no one told me that CHI Silk Infusion for rollersets is the bomb!!! I only have a sample size, but that 8oz bottle is about to be scooped up quick!

 

[SincerelyBeautiful]

Hey ladies I want to know do you guys oil or creams to mostiure and which brands

also what shampoo do you use for clarifying ? I had in a sew in for 6 weeks took it out today washed my hair with aphogee gheeze my hair was sooooo dry it I lost so much hair detangling I did follow up with a deep condition but still

I use coconut oil as my choice oil and for my cream i use Cantu leave in repair cream. To clarify i use ORS creamy aloe shampoo and follow it with a moisturizing poo like Elasta QP moisturizing shampoo which is sulfate free and very mositurizing IMO. I hear alot of ladies mention the LOC method in which a liquid is used first. I havent personally tried this but if i did i would probably use my rosewater mix for the L in this LOC method. Hope this helps!!

 

[Babygrowth]

Why has no one told me that CHI Silk Infusion for rollersets is the bomb!!! I only have a sample size, but that 8oz bottle is about to be scooped up quick!

How did you use it? I just bought a bottle but I want to make sure I use it right. Saludable84

 

[Saludable84]

How did you use it? I just bought a bottle but I want to make sure I use it right. Saludable84

Well, I roller set in sections and sometimes my hair dries a little faster than I roll, so all I did was re-wet each section and applied a dime sized amount of CHI to my hands, rubbed it, then applied it to the lower length of my hair, then closer to the roots, then smoothed down to catch the ends again. Last, just roll. I dont do a dime size to the whole head because its not practical. I have 5 sections and I used a dime-size to less on each section depending on size.

At first your going to think "This isnt enough" but it is and you will see it when you hair finally dries. If you use too much, I could see it leaving a film. Just remember less is more and you should be fine.

 

[ghanagirl23]

I use coconut oil as my choice oil and for my cream i use Cantu leave in repair cream. To clarify i use ORS creamy aloe shampoo and follow it with a moisturizing poo like Elasta QP moisturizing shampoo which is sulfate free and very mositurizing IMO. I hear alot of ladies mention the LOC method in which a liquid is used first. I havent personally tried this but if i did i would probably use my rosewater mix for the L in this LOC method. Hope this helps!!

thanks a lot I will go ahead and purchase the ors creamy aloe shampoo

 

[ghanagirl23]

Since my hair is thin when I end this stretch in august I am going to telax instead because relaxing bone straight is not helping me lol

 

[mshoneyfly]

Since my hair is thin when I end this stretch in august I am going to telax instead because relaxing bone straight is not helping me lol

ghanagirl23
This is one of the best decisions I have made for my fine, 4b hair. I love seeing my texture but still having manageable hair. When my hair is straight, i can easily see my bone straight ends. I am finally retaining length. Wish I would have texturized a long time ago :/

 

[SincerelyBeautiful]

^^^same for me. Once i realized what texlaxing was and started doing so myself, i have noticed my hair has thickened up tremendously. I can see texture as well and i love it. My hair is thriving and im happy about it

 

[ghanagirl23]

ghanagirl23
This is one of the best decisions I have made for my fine, 4b hair. I love seeing my texture but still having manageable hair. When my hair is straight, i can easily see my bone straight ends. I am finally retaining length. Wish I would have texturized a long time ago :/

Lol your response has me so excited to telax in august I cant wait to try it do you add oils to your relaxer or ?

 

[mshoneyfly]

Lol your response has me so excited to telax in august I cant wait to try it do you add oils to your relaxer or ?

ghanagirl23
Yes. I have been using just for me texture softener and it comes with a sunflower oil mixture. The directions say to put 1/2 the oil in relaxer and half on your entire hair shaft but I pour the entire bottle in (4 oz). I then put my own safflower oil on my hair shaft.

I also base my scalp with vaseline and also put conditioner on my hair shaft (before the oil).

 

[ghanagirl23]

ghanagirl23
Yes. I have been using just for me texture softener and it comes with a sunflower oil mixture. The directions say to put 1/2 the oil in relaxer and half on your entire hair shaft but I pour the entire bottle in (4 oz). I then put my own safflower oil on my hair shaft.

I also base my scalp with vaseline and also put conditioner on my hair shaft (before the oil).

Oh okay I use creme of nature argan oil relaxer so I can just put some argan oil in it then thanks by the way

 

[shasha8685]

Can't wait for my relaxer on Saturday! I'm 16/17 weeks post so it's time....

 

[SunySydeofLyfe]

I've got a tender spot on my scalp that hurts only when i touch it. After googling info some believe its growth. I wanted to poo today but that spot makes me rethink that. WTH is going on????

Suny

 

[Evolving78]

for the last few days, i have been applying coconut oil to my hair first, bunning it, then liberally spraying my hair with my moisturizing spray. it seems my hair has been staying moisturized using this method. and having a humidifier has helped too. i plan on doing this for awhile.

it would be nice if i could wear a bun this weekend for an outing, but my face is too chubby right now. i don't want to look like a fat squirrel. so i gotta wear my hair down.

 

[Mande30]

for the last few days, i have been applying coconut oil to my hair first, bunning it, then liberally spraying my hair with my moisturizing spray. it seems my hair has been staying moisturized using this method. and having a humidifier has helped too. i plan on doing this for awhile.

it would be nice if i could wear a bun this weekend for an outing, but my face is too chubby right now. i don't want to look like a fat squirrel. so i gotta wear my hair down.

shortdub78

too funny....this is the exact reason why I can't (more like refuse to) wear buns or any other pulled back style. It makes my head look too small for my body and my face shape does not support that type of style. It is quite unfortunate, seeing that everyone raves about the retention from wearing buns. My journey to my goals may take a little longer and I have to ALWAYS be on my A game when it comes to caring for my hair. But I just refuse to look like a ragamuffin (except at the gym).

 

[Saludable84]

Can't wait for my relaxer on Saturday! I'm 16/17 weeks post so it's time....

Love your blog!

 

[ghanagirl23]

hey ladies that use wigs as protective style how do you take care of your edges under your weaves ? and do you buy it from the store or make it and if you do what cap do u use ?

 

[shasha8685]

Love your blog!

Aww thanks!

 

[mochalocks]

Anyone not get a blow out after they come from under the dryer? - the Dominicans love to do a blow out.

I didn't get a blow out this past Wednesday when I went to the salon, and I really don't see the difference. I think I'm going to stop getting them from now on.

 

[Evolving78]

Anyone not get a blow out after they come from under the dryer? - the Dominicans love to do a blow out.

I didn't get a blow out this past Wednesday when I went to the salon, and I really don't see the difference. I think I'm going to stop getting them from now on.

just get a roller set and keep it moving. do they know how to do a silk wrap?