kanozas
se ven las caras pero nunca el corazón
Requested disclaimer: No, this is not my situation in the least. I'm reflecting upon some stats, general opinions, real life situations I know about and my own opinion that men simply must go against the high tide to remain faithful and stats say that most of them will cheat in a marriage during the duration of it, esp. if it's a very long marriage. Not a man-hater, but am a realist. I hope this suffices.
The more I live, the more I mistrust that most men can be faithful nor will be faithful. I can't know for sure, but I wonder how many of these men coming to confession have cheated on their families (although they shouldn't, I've heard priests say it's a rather common confession). Religious or secular, most of them don't appreciate that we give up our entire lives for them, even if we are still active in our singular endeavors and work our professions. It changes. We come under their threshold and not vice versa. It would be nice if they'd recognize the sacrifice and stop playing games. I'd rather know up-front that I'm no longer wanted (be honest, move on mutually is the meaning). Cheaters truly are disgusting, narcissistic, disingenuous thieves and I'm glad they will reap what they sow. Recompense might not come now, but it will come.
The more I live, the more I mistrust that most men can be faithful nor will be faithful. I can't know for sure, but I wonder how many of these men coming to confession have cheated on their families (although they shouldn't, I've heard priests say it's a rather common confession). Religious or secular, most of them don't appreciate that we give up our entire lives for them, even if we are still active in our singular endeavors and work our professions. It changes. We come under their threshold and not vice versa. It would be nice if they'd recognize the sacrifice and stop playing games. I'd rather know up-front that I'm no longer wanted (be honest, move on mutually is the meaning). Cheaters truly are disgusting, narcissistic, disingenuous thieves and I'm glad they will reap what they sow. Recompense might not come now, but it will come.
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