Reconciliations? How Often Are They Successful?

No success for me so far. I don't think I've ever dated the same person twice. That's why sometimes I wonder if that quote "if u let someone go if it's meant to be it'll come back" would ever apply to me because I firmly believe in letting go, moving on, and not looking back.
 
I would say it depends on both of the people involved- how committed they are to making the relationship work. Are they going to change/adjust & get counseling if needed? Also depends on the reason for the break-up in the first place- all reasons are not equal- some can be overcome, some need more work & some maybe never. I have seen some work (in a marriage).
 
I'm in the middle of one right now.....


you're probly right :ohwell:
i'm such a fool


No. I think it depends on what you are willingly to go through and explore of what happened to fix the future. If both are truly willingly to do that, such as like you do with a courtship. You really get down to the nitty gitty. Then it is possible. I think that many people are not willing to do it because they just forgive and move on, but never correct, realize, or understand the former actions so they can be corrected. Sometimes you find it's not worth it. Other times that may be just what was needed in the first place.

You have to let go sometimes to know you want to hold on. IMO
 
It was a partial success but I would never do it. We were together for 4 years then broke up for a year then back together and engaged a year later. A year after that married and stay married for 7 years then divorced. eh

The answer is it ultimately ended so it must wasn't meant to be.
 
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