Real life HITCH

[LadyBugsy]

A friend of mine and i had a great conversation about his new business - he is going to start consulting the single marriage minded ladies in Atlanta! We discussed our views and he had some good points. So i want to pose one of the best questions he asked me last night.....



Ladies how do you set yourself apart from others in a dating relationship situation? What do you do to ensure a unique experience with the man that you're dating or in a relationship with?

Perfect Locks wavy 16-18 for sale!
Sent from my iPod touch using LHCF

 

[Mai Tai]

A friend of mine and i had a great conversation about his new business - he is going to start consulting the single marriage minded ladies in Atlanta! We discussed our views and he had some good points. So i want to pose one of the best questions he asked me last night.....



Ladies how do you set yourself apart from others in a dating relationship situation? What do you do to ensure a unique experience with the man that you're dating or in a relationship with?

Perfect Locks wavy 16-18 for sale!
Sent from my iPod touch using LHCF

In short... just being myself.

Anything else is unacceptable. I'm in a serious relationship now, but when I was dating, I never actively tried to set myself apart.

 

[LadyBugsy]

Maybe not what you are doing on purpose...he was saying that women should find out what the man lacks in his life and try to accommodate ... I wanted to see if other ladies agreed


Perfect Locks wavy 16-18 for sale!
Sent from my iPod touch using LHCF

 

[hopeful]

Well I agree that when a woman fills a void it opens his heart but that should happen naturally. Looking for his void and then trying to fill it IMO is trying too hard. I think that is how people get tricked into marrying someone. It is very upsetting when people stop being who you thought they were.

 

[LadyBugsy]

hopeful I thought the same thing. I don't want to feel like I am infiltrating his world only to flip the script.


Perfect Locks wavy 16-18 for sale!
Sent from my iPod touch using LHCF

 

[Mai Tai]

Maybe not what you are doing on purpose...he was saying that women should find out what the man lacks in his life and try to accommodate ... I wanted to see if other ladies agreed


Perfect Locks wavy 16-18 for sale!
Sent from my iPod touch using LHCF

So what does your friend say about what men need to do? Serious question...

 

[LadyBugsy]

He says that a man should find out what a woman likes and try to incorporate romance in every interaction.


Perfect Locks wavy 16-18 for sale!
Sent from my iPod touch using LHCF

 

[Imani]

Not trying to be mean in any way towards your friend. But it seems kind of like taking advantage of the women and the situation in Atl for profit. I just get kind of suspicious of all of these books and relationship experts popping up for the plight of the poor single black woman.

 

[SUPER SWEET]

How is this different than a singles ministry that includes non-members?
Where is he gonna get the man pool from?
Does he think people will pay more than a match.com service fee?
Good luck....

 

[cheetarah1980]

Hitch actually worked with men to land women who they thought were out of their league. This doesn't sound Hitch-like at all.

 

[BeautifulFlower]

And this movie ended with this moral of the story

"Finding love has no formula, be yourself and be open to love"


Sending BeautifulFlowers from my iPhone

 

[LadyBugsy]

Man pool is from his investment club, fraternity, singles ministry and flag football team.

He would just have events and the extras (coaching, wardrobe, etc) are a la carte.



And yes, he is doing it to make money. But I did think that some women could benefit from it. I posed the question he asked me because I had no answer for it when he asked me. Like an earlier poster, I just be me and try to get to know folks and have fun.


Perfect Locks wavy 16-18 for sale!
Sent from my iPod touch using LHCF

 

[anon123]

May we ask what your friend's qualifications as a relationship expert are?

Actually, with this title, I thought you were talking about the Modern Day Matchmaker:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abKJU0bJmGw&feature=related

 

[MamaBear2012]

I'm guessing he lives in Atlanta. This doesn't really seem to be a new concept here, so I hope he has a twist. I hear about quite a few playdate-type events, networking events, etc. here in Atlanta. And because it's Atlanta, most of them cater to black singles. Two of my girlfriends went to an event a couple of months ago.

Anyway, I agree with the other posters. Be YOU.