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I don't. I worry about using chelating or clarifying shampoos cause my hair is really sensitive to the sulphates.

I thought you were finding things that were helping it get and stay moisturized? Did all the combinations work the same or not work?
DoDo
Aussie 3 Min.
Went to look for more drugstore conditioners and then reminded myself I am on a no buy.

Girl, get you some flattering braids, twists, wig/weave. Insta-long hair. Thats what I do.I hate my short hair. ****ing hate it. Won't grow fast enough.
NGraceOGirl, get you some flattering braids, twists, wig/weave. Insta-long hair. Thats what I do.NGraceO
I've been in braids for 4 weeks. It's fine but then I see what that stupid woman did to my hair in December and I get upset. I asked for a trim and she ended up giving me some bowl looking cut. I was so upset. I was grazing SL before and now I'm an uneven neck length and crazy layered. it looks so disgusting. I feel like I'm never going to reach my hair goals.
that really sucks. Setbacks in any form are THE worst...ESP when I is not your own doing -__-
it will grow!!I've been in braids for 4 weeks. It's fine but then I see what that stupid woman did to my hair in December and I get upset. I asked for a trim and she ended up giving me some bowl looking cut. I was so upset. I was grazing SL before and now I'm an uneven neck length and crazy layered. it looks so disgusting. I feel like I'm never going to reach my hair goals.
@Ogoma
I love Aussie 3 minute. I can tell you that few drugstore conditioners actually have as much slip or leave your hair as silky. I am very pleased. I have yet to try the Suave Aveda dupe or the Aveeno conditioners, or even the L'oreal line sooo I don't think I have tried that many.
I'm glad someone else has discovered the benefits of Aussie 3 minute though.![]()
I've been in braids for 4 weeks. It's fine but then I see what that stupid woman did to my hair in December and I get upset. I asked for a trim and she ended up giving me some bowl looking cut. I was so upset. I was grazing SL before and now I'm an uneven neck length and crazy layered. it looks so disgusting.
I feel like I'm never going to reach my hair goals.
I'm good through the leave-in. After that I haven't found anything that works. All combinations seem to work the same. I'm tired of trying products, combinations, methods for my hair to feel the same. My retention is terrible. I think I retained 2 inches in 2013. I'm done trying anything for now. I'm putting in puffy twists right now. It's going to be a lot of that for 2014.
[USER=201322 said:divachyk[/USER];19542233]faithVA, what does your hair feel like after using the products that doesn't work?
[USER=334345 said:Ogoma[/USER];19541097]Glad you have found leave-ins that work. I remember when you struggled with that. So are you trying to figure out butters, oils, or other sealants now? If the leave-in moisturizes, is it the length of time your hair stays moisturized that is the issue?
Puffy twists don't seem like a bad idea to give yourself a break. You have definitely put in the work trying to figure out your hair. A vacation from it sounds like a good idea.
When I put on my leave-in which works, my hair feels soft and moisturized and manageable.
When I put on anything after that whether it is an oil or cream or butter my hair feels like it stiffens up a bit, but it feels OK. And I have tried different amounts from dime size to just loading it on. No matter what I put on it though it dries crunchy and stiff.
Sometimes after days of spritzing it I can get it to feel moisturized.
I put it up in puffy twist for now. I need a mental break.
faithVA, I stopped using leave ins for that reason and modified my DCing regimen so now I just put a pea sized amount of reg condish on my Reg wash days...and my curl activator/Eco. My hair 'has been drying really soft nd bouncy even if I don't diffuse. For some reason leave ins always just coated my hair nd left it feeling dry. I can't use straight oils or leave In cause yea my hair crunches once dry. Maybe ur havintge same issue.
) you may find that your hair is soft and smooth. If that doesn't work try the leave in alone. All I am saying is if you find that products take away that feeling of softness you like, than maybe your hair just doesn't need all of that extra. Err on the side of less product, and when the hair starts to lose some of its moisture refresh with a light leave in and oil. We all have different heads of hair, what works for one often does not work for the other.faithVA, I stopped using leave ins for that reason and modified my DCing regimen so now I just put a pea sized amount of reg condish on my Reg wash days...and my curl activator/Eco. My hair 'has been drying really soft nd bouncy even if I don't diffuse. For some reason leave ins always just coated my hair nd left it feeling dry. I can't use straight oils or leave In cause yea my hair crunches once dry. Maybe ur havintge same issue.