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mcgheeola

mcgheeola

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If you found a picture of your boyfriends penis on his cell and other womens that sent a picture of her self what would you do?
 
1. if I had a legitimate reason to be on his phone (he gave it to me to make a call or something), I'd confirm that he was 'sexting' women, and get my dog & be out
2. if I was snooping around :look: I might feel too guilty to do anything. Like 'why were you looking in my phone etc'. Nope, I'd probably still confront him. That's just unnacceptable. :nono:
 
yeah seems like the relationship would be downhill after that. i would probably suspect he was cheating and put us on a "break."
 
Couldn't do it. I'm not sure I'd even give an explanation. I think I'd just fade to black...because I can't think of ONE SINGLE reason why that would be acceptable behavior.
 
We'd be through.

Schlong pics may get a pass if they had been sent to me. Never a reason for someone's sushi to be on his phone though...
 
Ok if he was complaining about everything you do when he didnt n the past would that make you think something is wrong?
 
mcgheeola said:
Ok if he was complaining about everything you do when he didnt n the past would that make you think something is wrong?
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If he's sending nude pics, receiving nude pics from other women and now complaining constantly.....these are red flags you can't ignore.

Is this your boyfriend? Sounds as if he's tired of the relationship.
 
Don't settle momma. It's the worse thing for this happen when your in too deep. You'll always wonder and you'll doubt every reason he gives you. This exact thing happened to me with my DH. And it's why we are where we are right now. We're trying to make it work, but it's a long hard road after everything that's happened.

I doubt everything he ever tells me. When he's texting I'm wondering who it is? When he leaves to go hang out with "friends" I secretly wonder. I don't want anyone else to have to experience that. It's not worth it and if me and DH was just a boyfriend it would definitely be over. I just feel like I can't give up on my marriage.
 
yea he was complaining about everything i heard him talking on the phone in my room. I was at the door ok this fool dont pay no bills so yea i was at the door.so i think she asked him when is he coming over and he said ill see its all about time ill let you no.so when i went in the room i said who was that o my friend she just got out of jail for fighting.so i got his razor phone you have to have a code to check his messages i blocked it.so i when to the picture his penis and she sent a picture of herself last month.
 
Am I understanding this right when you say he "pays no bills"? Is he staying with you while acting a fool? You need to get him out before things get worse :nono: There is no need for you to put up with this foolishness from a man that's not doing anything.
 
1. He's sending pictures of his weiner to women
2. He's not paying the bills

Erm, these two reasons should be enough for you to know he's no good. All the other things about him complaining about you to his felon friends or whatever else he's doing really don't matter.

Kick the loser out!
 
yea none he was in my room texting alot i dont think he cares last month he told me he's ex wife is bringing him some soup. Ok over my house im like what thats disrepecting me he sat done on my floor with his arms folded mad.he said o its just like dropping off the kids but she not dropping them off she taking care of you.
 
Girl you dealing with way too much drama :nono: He's being very disrespectful to you and he will continue as long as you allow it.

You need to pack up his stuff, his soup and send him back to his ex-wife :nono:

He's playing you.
 
mcgheeola said:
yea none he was in my room texting alot i dont think he cares last month he told me he's ex wife is bringing him some soup. Ok over my house im like what thats disrepecting me he sat done on my floor with his arms folded mad.he said o its just like dropping off the kids but she not dropping them off she taking care of you.
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you mean he does not pay any bills and has his kids dropped off there too? You're feeding him and his spawn? Please tell me this is not true.
 
I did today i went off on him and i said this what im going to do pack your stuff and you can come pick it up.so he calls to today o his car broke down so he has to get it tomorrow he's at his sons house.
 
they dont come over any more its been a long time just the fact your man walk in the room and say something like that.
 
How old is this man, he sounds very immature.

I hope you stick to your guns, you do realize he'll try to worm his trifling behind back into your home, right?
 
~~HoneyComb~~ said:
How old is this man, he sounds very immature.

I hope you stick to your guns, you do realize he'll try to worm his trifling behind back into your home, right?
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An old fool from outerspace.com He's got a son who's got his own house. Yet his old foolish behind is squatting and waiting for hot soups. :nono:
 
he's ex wife is married he just found that out last month she dont want him to get any money.i dont feel sorry for him after all this mess when i asked him about the pictures hes like what pictures o i forgot about that.
 
he's 40 his son just got his place yesterday he went over there to put some money on is place to help him ok but he wont do it here.he brought food finally i hope he dont think he's getting that.
 
OP this is not directed towards you, i'm just speaking in general. We as women need to stop supporting these no good men! If they don't work... dammit they don't eat, sleep and definitely no cootie! We are weakening these men. Men are not men anymore. STOPIT!!!!
 
He has a job he works for the city but he's always broke comes home asked what we eating today.then he's in my room texting no telling how long this been going on.
 
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