I don't like the idea of "wanting to get married" versus "wanting to marry a specific person" . Because wanting to get married is like being in love with the idea of love, instead of wanting to marry because you found a strong loving union. I don't want to just get married for the sake of getting married. I want to marry because I've found my sweetie. With that said
I want to marry my fiance because:
He is my bestfriend
He is as committed to me as I am to him. And he never sends mixed signals. In fact he jokes he will have the oxygen there in case I pass out at the wedding and prop me up so that I say I do
(he knows the issues my parent's faced and knows why I waited to find the right person or not to get married at all).
He adds to my life (instead of take away from it) through his generosity, support, joy, wisdom, and understanding.
He's hysterically funny in a cute dry way.
Even the bad times are never bad because he's by my side.
He will do everything in his power to make things better.
(sounds hokey but truly): He is earth and I am air (he grounds me by providing support, while also encouraging me to reach for my dreams.)
He's intelligent without being show offy and truly wears it well and that's so darn sexy to me (I love a smart man)!
He truly is my number 1 fan.
He would make the earth move for me if he could, and has completed some miracles on my behalf lol!
He is great with children (seeing him interact with other people's kids) and will be a great father.
So as you can see my signature states the quote "I fear no fate, for you are my fate my sweet" from the poem I carry your heart, I carry it in my heart. AND that is the TRUTH when it comes to him.
I feel that we are a great match in every way
We have the same views on child rearing, money, and ideas about our "roles" in marriage.
He will do anything to make me happy but he also is not a door mat. HE stands up for what he believes in.
He is an alpha dog but knows how to be loving and affectionate and make his woman feel loved.
Basically I won the lottery in my opinion. So really I want to marry him because who would reject the lottery? "Uhm no thanks, that's okay, I'll pass." No way no how would I pass!
With that said: I don't mind being alone. I don't
have to get married. In fact if I ended up the cool quirky old artsy aunt I'd be completely fine with that. But I know how to recognize a good thing, and I won't let it pass me by and that is why I
want to get married to my sweetie (in particular). I'd wait a lifetime to find a connection (instead of marrying for the sake of marrying) but once finding the type of relationship I want, I'll dive in head first without hesitation.