janiebaby
Well-Known Member
So I'm wondering for people who are celibate (my definition: consciously choosing to abstain from sex once you're in a relationship), were celibate or are thinking about becoming celibate....
How do you/did you feel about kissing the person you intended to marry before the wedding day?
I'm thinking, and it may change, that it might me a no go for me. I'm very sexual and I feel like kissing can be sexual. I don't even know how to give a quick peck (honest) so I guess it's something I'd have to train myself how to do? I mean a kiss on the cheek could be ok but me kissing someone on the lips?? It can start innocently and linger a bit too long.
Eta: I dont take internet offense too easily so say what you want to say how you want to say it. Just say it plainly
How do you/did you feel about kissing the person you intended to marry before the wedding day?
I'm thinking, and it may change, that it might me a no go for me. I'm very sexual and I feel like kissing can be sexual. I don't even know how to give a quick peck (honest) so I guess it's something I'd have to train myself how to do? I mean a kiss on the cheek could be ok but me kissing someone on the lips?? It can start innocently and linger a bit too long.
Eta: I dont take internet offense too easily so say what you want to say how you want to say it. Just say it plainly
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