Why is it that a man would tell you, that you have the Best ***** he every had but still finds the time to cheat on you. Please help me to understand. comments are really needed.
Because he is lying through his teeth and telling you what he knows you want to hear to throw off suspicion. While you're thinking you're the best, he's barking up another tree telling her the same thing. He hasn't proved or said a thing about the "quality of you or your loving" until he has committed to with a ring, before his family and his God.
Why is it that a man would tell you, that you have the Best ***** he every had but still finds the time to cheat on you. Please help me to understand. comments are really needed.
When he told you it was the best, did he tell you he was addicted? j/k
Because he is lying through his teeth and telling you what he knows you want to hear to throw off suspicion. While you're thinking you're the best, he's barking up another tree telling her the same thing. He hasn't proved or said a thing about the "quality of you or your loving" until he has committed to with a ring, before his family and his God.
Why is it that a man would tell you, that you have the Best ***** he every had but still finds the time to cheat on you. Please help me to understand. comments are really needed.
My ex once told me, "All p..... is good p...., as long as it ain't burnin'."
I thanked him for his honesty and we soon parted!
dk
Why is it that a man would tell you, that you have the Best ***** he every had but still finds the time to cheat on you. Please help me to understand. comments are really needed.
Because he is lying through his teeth and telling you what he knows you want to hear to throw off suspicion. While you're thinking you're the best, he's barking up another tree telling her the same thing. He hasn't proved or said a thing about the "quality of you or your loving" until he has committed to with a ring, before his family and his God.
My ex once told me, "All p..... is good p...., as long as it ain't burnin'."
I thanked him for his honesty and we soon parted!
dk
Sorry but I had to chime in on this one.
Maybe your stuff is the bomb to him!!! I agree it won't keep him monogamous but it may keep him around longer or you may have to be the one to eventually cut it off.
And all goodies ain't good goodies. I have heard plenty of men talk about how dry, wet, tight, hot, stinky, loose, perfect fit etc... a woman was.
Maybe in the ponannie dept. you were worthy of his praise. If your stuff is good, it's good so don't let no-one take that away from you. We all know a woman with a snapper, so there is some truth to it somewhere. Some of us have even had a man that had the bomb stuff too and ya still thinking about it.
However, I wouldn't equate that with your relationship compatibility.
My ex once told me, "All p..... is good p...., as long as it ain't burnin'."
I thanked him for his honesty and we soon parted!
dk
Well, thank you guys for being REAL, before I make a decision to stay are go. It's been a long rocky road these last few months I'm in a place in my life where I don't need drama. we're both very independent Moma always said don't get nothing you can't afford so I would be able to keep what we both accomplish without losing anything, So hands up to my girls.[/QUOTE
Sweetie, Like one of the other posters said I do believe when he told you that you had the bomb then you probably do.Don't let anyone take that from you but it maybe a case in which the two of you are compatible sexually but incompatible in other areas of your relationship.I would first evaluate all the areas of the relationship and perhaps consider asking him what he is dissatisfied with.I don't know the circumstances of your relationship but I do know men cheat for reasons other than sex and like I said before I personally know more women who have cheated on their SO's and husbands than vice versa.Good Luck!
If it were that bomb, he would be faithful. I agree about not equating that w relationship compability. Umm I look at it as: he is saying what he needs to say to keep you around.