Please Help.....Need Your Eyes for a Weave or Wig Check

[10WordzOrLess]

@Hairsnob *serious face* I love you. Your attitude is exceptional. I applaud your candor and honesty, and it's quite refreshing to see anyone own up to their inner hater. We all have one. And I agree with some of these posters, your hair is lovely, no need for a snappy comeback to the memory of an ex.


But I NEED this thread in my life. What I see on the horizon isn't just imminent...it's necessary for my Sunday entertainment. Ya let the train out of the station, no need to lay down on the tracks.

 

[blueberryd]

While I knew you were going to get 'stoned' for this, I admire your honesty--it was VERY brave of you to keep it THAT real on this forum. ;-) lol
ps I reallly cant tell if its hers or not, I would have to see some more pics/styles/angles.

 

[Foxglove]

Just playing devil's advocate- If it is a weave/wig what would you do? That says nothing about the health or length of her real hair

 

[davisbr88]

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I still think this thread is hilarious...

 

[iri9109]

i cant tell. but what if the consensus in the thread is that its fake, and it ends up really being her hair? and what if they say its real, but its really fake? this thread proves nothing...

 

[Hairsnob]

I'm having this thread deleted so have fun up until then. Copy it or continue posting to it or whatever but I forgot I wasn't talking to my girlfriends when I posted this. I'm sure most of you have conversations like this with your girlfriends all the time. I just wanted some people's advice who knew about weaves. I don't like to take relationship advice because nobody can judge anything about me from a couple of sentences in a post. And although I shared a lot, I don't wish to share anymore. Thanks for all the responses that were positive and not intrusive.

I'm glad this provided at least a little amusement for the day. It's funny that everybody wants to know my reasons behind this and for admitting something but at the same time people can't wait to pick apart your relationship looking for fault in it. That sounds like hate to me.

I've seen it happen here where women ask a question about what type of relaxer they should get or something and instead of helping her with the question they try to talk her out of relaxing or something. I'm sure this remark will turn into another thread. I think this is the most responses I've gotten from any thread I ever started.

I will do what Nonie suggested and not provide any "extra" details anymore when posting. I'm just a pretty open and honest person so I forget sometimes that you open up a can of worms when you say too much.

Have a great day ladies. No harm, no foul.

 

[nappystorm]

 

[ThickHair]

^^^^Um, what's up with that????? Scary

I think her hair looks cute either way. I will just keep quiet about everything else.

 

[WAVES4DAYS]

I'm having this thread deleted so have fun up until then. Copy it or continue posting to it or whatever but I forgot I wasn't talking to my girlfriends when I posted this. I'm sure most of you have conversations like this with your girlfriends all the time. I just wanted some people's advice who knew about weaves. I don't like to take relationship advice because nobody can judge anything about me from a couple of sentences in a post. And although I shared a lot, I don't wish to share anymore. Thanks for all the responses that were positive and not intrusive.

I'm glad this provided at least a little amusement for the day. It's funny that everybody wants to know my reasons behind this and for admitting something but at the same time people can't wait to pick apart your relationship looking for fault in it. That sounds like hate to me.

I've seen it happen here where women ask a question about what type of relaxer they should get or something and instead of helping her with the question they try to talk her out of relaxing or something. I'm sure this remark will turn into another thread. I think this is the most responses I've gotten from any thread I ever started.

I will do what Nonie suggested and not provide any "extra" details anymore when posting. I'm just a pretty open and honest person so I forget sometimes that you open up a can of worms when you say too much.

Have a great day ladies. No harm, no foul.

You are a trooper! I'm sorry your thread went south. Great advice from Nonie though, can't be too open on these sites.

 

[Glamiam]

I'm sure this remark will turn into another thread. I think this is the most responses I've gotten from any thread I ever started.

Isn't it funny how that works? But ask a meaningful question and get about 4 responses

 

[La Colocha]

Sorry op if my post offended you, i didn't quote you to be nasty in any kind of way. Follow nonie's advice because what you post people will comment on and sometimes it doesn't go the way you planned. I didn't like what he does as far as ex's i think its unfair to you but like you say its not the relationship forum or my business.

I will delete my previous post.

 

[Miss_C]

Girl do you see that bump near the part? That is a weave. Happy Hating girl lol.

 

[GodivaChocolate]

I used to have a ex friend like u who would pick apart any woman( including me) because she was insecure. The weird part was that she was very pretty but obviously felt better picking other people apart.
That being said, girl that's probably a weave because look at how the light hits the hump...lol
Just messing with you! I know we all want to be the most beautiful for our SO or DH and I think it's natural to feel somewhat insecure from time to time but he's with you so don't sweat the small stuff.
It's probably a weave and she's bald underneath....lol

 

[AHeadOfCoils]

I would have to leave my man if he is steady bragging about his ex's and making me feel insecure. That's not a good combination.

Anywho, she has a weave with some thick arse wefts or braids.

 

[DrC]

Girl do you see that bump near the part? That is a weave. Happy Hating girl lol.

 

[danysedai]

Ok, I'll help, I think it's a weave, and your hair looks great.
As to the other, I've been a member here for a looong time,I have overshared in the past and never again

 

[wannabelong]

It's a weave. I see the bump on each side of the part. Carry on with the hating.

 

[HoneyA]

From a former weave addict, it's a weave. But uhmm really OP? But you said he brags about her? I just reread the your post. Hmm...

 

[beana]

I've been a member here for a looong time,I have overshared in the past and never again

DITTO!!!

I think its a weave/ added tracks.

Quick story:
I recently started wearing weaves as a protective style while tranisitioning. I told my bf i was going to get a weave a week prior to getting it done and he had such a nasty attitude about it, "i hate girls with fake hair" "whats wrong with your hair?" blah blah blah... the girl he dated before me was a notorious wig wearer!!!! One day he got on my nerves with his nonsense and i pulled his card and told him, "Your dumba$$ doesn't even know what the hell you're looking at half the time. _____ had a ratty wig and you didnt even know so shut up" Fast forward... I'm wearing my second weave now and he likes it and hasnt said a peep since. My hair is APL and the weave is APL as well

 

[Tootuff]

I am not good at detecting weaves but I have about 2-3 inches of dark brown hair and the rest is jet black. I was putting a jet black rinse in my hair to cover the gray and my mom told me it was to dark so I started using dark brown but the black never did wash out. It is very noticeable in the sun.

ETA: I said all this to say that the different colors does not always mean weave.

 

[Ishtar]

I think it' real. The top of her hair looks very flat and blends very well. I could be wrong or could be right.

OP, I understand your dilemma. One of my first post here was about one of my uncles coming on to me. I was asking what to do and then suddenly the thread turned into me being accused of incest by several members of this board. Some people thrive off of drama. I know that this was supposed to be a lighthearted convo.