Thanks ladies!
shinyblackhair,
I got my hair trimmed about 4 times in that period. 3 was when I went to the stylist and she did it for me automatically, and the final one was when I got frustrated with the breakage/dryness and did it myself. If I were you, and I had dry dry dry ends with color, and I was just about at brastrap, I'd wait until I was all the way at brastrap and gradually trim off the dry ends instead of doing it all at once. That way, I wouldn't feel like I'd been set back, but the choice is yours.
Now that I'm in maintenance mode, I wear my hair in a twist-up 99% of the time. Today, I just decided to wear it down to see what it'll look like, but a good majority of the time, it's up and the ends are well moisturized and tucked away. I'm in the same boat as you when it comes to deciding to wear it down, as I don't want to lose all the progress I've made.
My ultimate goal is waist length (elbow length), and now that I've accomplished brastrap, I'm not as focused or, shall I say, eager to grow my hair. I've learned that it grows, and I know that it'll get longer...I'm now just playing the waiting game. I hope I answered all of your questions
Edited to add: My hair is about 1.5" longer than the new year's eve pic
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