I have a friend at work who recently started dating a guy that she met on the internet. She's in her mid 40's and divorced.
She's been out with him a few times, and says that she feels chemistry with him physically, but mentally... not so much. He's about 10 years older than her; He has money and a fabulous house, but his personality is truly lacking... he talks about himself all the time, and does not really seem very interested in knowing that much about her (yet he talks about how they will go on vacations together, etc)... She ended up at his house after one of their dinner dates, and they fooled around some, so she knows that they're physically compatible. She told me that she's thinking about continuing to see him, mainly for someone to go out with to nice places, and probably (eventually) for sex...
I'm recently back on the dating scene myself (after MANY years of being out of it), so her and I talk about this stuff all the time. She says that this is the way it is out here now... I don't know; I just can't really imagine having an intimate relationship with someone I didn't enjoy being with OUTSIDE of the bedroom, ya know? But on the other hand, certain itches do need to be scratched...
Any thoughts??
She's been out with him a few times, and says that she feels chemistry with him physically, but mentally... not so much. He's about 10 years older than her; He has money and a fabulous house, but his personality is truly lacking... he talks about himself all the time, and does not really seem very interested in knowing that much about her (yet he talks about how they will go on vacations together, etc)... She ended up at his house after one of their dinner dates, and they fooled around some, so she knows that they're physically compatible. She told me that she's thinking about continuing to see him, mainly for someone to go out with to nice places, and probably (eventually) for sex...
I'm recently back on the dating scene myself (after MANY years of being out of it), so her and I talk about this stuff all the time. She says that this is the way it is out here now... I don't know; I just can't really imagine having an intimate relationship with someone I didn't enjoy being with OUTSIDE of the bedroom, ya know? But on the other hand, certain itches do need to be scratched...
Any thoughts??