PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
We had a couple game night where we got together and played battle of the sexes, taboo and uno. You know typical board games. I have a male best friend that attended with his girlfriend. We've been close before either one of us got with our now significant others. We'll we just made the rule that we wouldn't talk to people of the opposite sex after ten pm and we would try to refrain from talking period to people after ten because that should be time for the couple to talk. We'll I called my friend at 9:30 and we talked a few minutes publically with each of our partners in the room. Ole girl was livid. My BFF told me she had been looking up boyfriends that have female significant others and found they never work out. She wants us to kind of oart.
My fiancé doesn't really care for our closeness either. I can understand his point of view. I talk this guy in the morning briefly. We talk about relationship problems a lot. And occasionally we will go work out together. My fiancé said he felt like he couldn't motivate me to work out but he can. I explained to him that it was because with him I have to make the initiative to work out with my BFF he'll just ask if I want to tag along.
As far as the friend. I've never had any intimate encounters with him. No conversations we could blackmail each other on. No weird touches or moments. In fact I used to date his ex best friend so I just never felt any physical connection to him and vice versa.
What should I do? I want to respect my fiancé. I don't want to lose my friend but I don't want to step on the girlfriends toes.
My fiancé doesn't really care for our closeness either. I can understand his point of view. I talk this guy in the morning briefly. We talk about relationship problems a lot. And occasionally we will go work out together. My fiancé said he felt like he couldn't motivate me to work out but he can. I explained to him that it was because with him I have to make the initiative to work out with my BFF he'll just ask if I want to tag along.
As far as the friend. I've never had any intimate encounters with him. No conversations we could blackmail each other on. No weird touches or moments. In fact I used to date his ex best friend so I just never felt any physical connection to him and vice versa.
What should I do? I want to respect my fiancé. I don't want to lose my friend but I don't want to step on the girlfriends toes.