tiara76
New Member
well no matter how the situation turns out...don't question yourself for being selfish....because you are not being....your husband is exhibiting very selfish behavior....so even if you decide to not go, it won't have anything to do with you and everything to do with him and you just need to make sure that if you don't decide to go that you are able to really be okay with that decisions.....like others have said.....alot of folks don't realize built up aggressions and resentments boil underneath the surface and alot of times come out subconsciously in behaviors..so be consciously aware of what you are doing feeling and take time to make sure you have resolved them all