Mandy4610
Well-Known Member
So, my job has offered me a trip to France for a one month job training program....but here is the problem...DH does not want me to go.
This is truly a once in a life time opportunity. I feel bad that I would have to be gone for so long, I have never been gone so long since DH and I got married. Is it selfish for me to want to go?
I am torn
and Sad because it does not feel great either way. I am happy about the opportunity, but I can not say whether it will be a YES or a NO to the offer and I can not go ahead and do it without knowing that DH supports me.
It is a definite NO on DH's part
UPDATE: ITS A YES.....DH AND I TALKED AND HE IS OK.
This is truly a once in a life time opportunity. I feel bad that I would have to be gone for so long, I have never been gone so long since DH and I got married. Is it selfish for me to want to go?
I am torn
and Sad because it does not feel great either way. I am happy about the opportunity, but I can not say whether it will be a YES or a NO to the offer and I can not go ahead and do it without knowing that DH supports me.
It is a definite NO on DH's part
UPDATE: ITS A YES.....DH AND I TALKED AND HE IS OK.
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