AnjelLuvs
Well-Known Member
So I am reading one of Katrina's FB post and here is one that got me side eyeing todays culture... I am not cut out to sleep with someone after 2nd date...
I am old fashion/behind on the times, something, because I was reading comments and seemingly everyone thought it was a Red flag that dude was not giving it up...
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ETA: So I asked a male coworker who stated that, there is something wrong with ole dude.. As a male he should be taking some type of move!
Lol... I was coming from a Female perspective! Like not my dignity, you can try all you want, I am not dishing out after 2nd date, so why would I expect that!
Update: It was stated on OP, as someone mentioned that the woman's concern was not so much intercourse but lack of intimacy...
Ladies ladiesVery curious about your take on this:
A man in my rotation, my favorite man, often has me scratching my head about his behavior and etc. The main thing that I wanted to ask about was this, as i actually have never met someone like this before: he WILL NOT have sex unless it's a girlfriend. Hes recently 40. Never had a one night stand. Always had sex in relationships only. Now, in the past I've wanted to wait for sex and met just several guys over the years who wanted to not have sex on 2nd date and "wait a few more dates", however, even in those cases, there would be lots of making out, movie nights and snuggles, heavy making out, etc etc.....NEVER WITH THIS GUY. HE WILL NOT LET US GO THERE. Very disciplined and controlled in this area. Is this some sort of a red flag...?! I've asked about it and he says he bonds pretty easily with physical intimacy and is tired of picking women that are wrong for him, so he wants to actually get to know someone before engaging much physically as it clouds him over. At first this made sense and I let it be. Now just... weird. Weve been at this 8 weeks now. No progression. No movie nights, no making out in car or against car. He says he is interested and when we kiss, I feel him get aroused, but he always stops things very quickly. It's a bit strange, yes?!
I am old fashion/behind on the times, something, because I was reading comments and seemingly everyone thought it was a Red flag that dude was not giving it up...
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ETA: So I asked a male coworker who stated that, there is something wrong with ole dude.. As a male he should be taking some type of move!
Lol... I was coming from a Female perspective! Like not my dignity, you can try all you want, I am not dishing out after 2nd date, so why would I expect that!
Update: It was stated on OP, as someone mentioned that the woman's concern was not so much intercourse but lack of intimacy...
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