jujubelle
New Member
Ok...I have gotten attention from older men ever since I was bout 12 years old. I did develop early and was the most developed in my class. I am 24 now.
With that being said...this trend of getting more attention from older men has continued. I'm not saying I don't get attention from guys my generation, but more than likely in a room split 50/50 of guys my generation and older guys, the old heads would approach me more.
Now I'm not talking someone 3,5,6 years older...I'm talking bout 10-20 years older. Right now I have two suitors over the age of 40. Not that they aren't nice guys but I kinda feel like they only after me cause I'm young and they want that little tenderoni piece by their side to look like "the man"
Gentleman one is 48, black, lives in my city. Known him for a year (he works at the physical therapy office I go to). Now looking at him he looks 10 years younger than he is and I get along with him great. He has 3 grown children and a 9 year old.
Gentleman 2 is 41, Romanian/Turkish. He works in IT. lives 2 hours away. He is separated and has an 8 year old son. I met him on MATCH (he contacted me). we talked for the first time yesterday and he seems pretty nice and polite.
There is one more gentleman who I've known for 4 years who is 37. I don't wanna put to much cause I think he browses this forum..lol
But I've had the most history with him and the connection/chemistry/whatever u wanna call it is off the Richter. But he doesn't believe in marriage.
Now it's not really a problem that they are older, except for that trophy image in my head, but how do I go about telling my family or if it develops into anything, bringing them around my peeps.
Even though I am 24, I am now back at my folks, but they still treat me like the 16 year old with the who what where when why's.![Spinning :spinning: :spinning:](/smilies/spinning.gif)
I also worry about becoming a caretaker young. Like the guy who is 48 in 10 years when I am in the peak of my 30s he'll be pushin 60.
erplexed
I don't have daddy issues, and I don't go after these guys specifically.
Has anyone been in this situation? Dated for a long time a man who was much older, or even married? Advice please!![Yep :yep: :yep:](/smilies/yep.gif)
With that being said...this trend of getting more attention from older men has continued. I'm not saying I don't get attention from guys my generation, but more than likely in a room split 50/50 of guys my generation and older guys, the old heads would approach me more.
Now I'm not talking someone 3,5,6 years older...I'm talking bout 10-20 years older. Right now I have two suitors over the age of 40. Not that they aren't nice guys but I kinda feel like they only after me cause I'm young and they want that little tenderoni piece by their side to look like "the man"
Gentleman one is 48, black, lives in my city. Known him for a year (he works at the physical therapy office I go to). Now looking at him he looks 10 years younger than he is and I get along with him great. He has 3 grown children and a 9 year old.
Gentleman 2 is 41, Romanian/Turkish. He works in IT. lives 2 hours away. He is separated and has an 8 year old son. I met him on MATCH (he contacted me). we talked for the first time yesterday and he seems pretty nice and polite.
There is one more gentleman who I've known for 4 years who is 37. I don't wanna put to much cause I think he browses this forum..lol
![Grin :grin: :grin:](/smilies/grin.gif)
Now it's not really a problem that they are older, except for that trophy image in my head, but how do I go about telling my family or if it develops into anything, bringing them around my peeps.
Even though I am 24, I am now back at my folks, but they still treat me like the 16 year old with the who what where when why's.
![Spinning :spinning: :spinning:](/smilies/spinning.gif)
I also worry about becoming a caretaker young. Like the guy who is 48 in 10 years when I am in the peak of my 30s he'll be pushin 60.
![Stick Out Tongue :p :p](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f61b.png)
I don't have daddy issues, and I don't go after these guys specifically.
Has anyone been in this situation? Dated for a long time a man who was much older, or even married? Advice please!
![Yep :yep: :yep:](/smilies/yep.gif)