OK! Why am i getting dissed on FOTKI!!!

[BerrySweet]

Honey, I'm sorry that happened 2 you...haters are just everywhere...you can't get rid of them...Just keep your head up...your hair is gorgeous...you worked too damn hard 2 let anyone's childish comment get to you.

I'm also considering putting my pw in my profile just 2 avoid ish like that...I have zero tolerance 4 ppl like that.

Lock it up girl, you can't trust the niceness of people on the board all of the time. And while it's obvious that "anon" was/is jealous, these comments still hurt.

Candy C,

I hope this doesn't sound out of line but it's real easy to cut out all the photoshop weave talk. When you do your next round of pictures, include a shot of your hair parted and pulled taut.

Haters can't argue with seeing scalp.

I'm sorry JCoily but the "seeing scalp" sounded soooo funny to me!!!

I guess "anon" is not longer "anon," and we all know who she is now. I wonder if she's going to come in here and defend herself, or disappear into cyberspace-never to be heard from again. Hmmmmm

 

[brownsugar9999]

Girl I don't understand what's going on now a day's, I think some have been drinking bootleg kool-aid know as "hater-aid", your hair is gorgeous, and you have worked hard to achieve it. Don't pay them no mind, because when ya' doing bad pple talk instead of advising, and when ya' doing good at anything they still talking instead of congratulating. I tell ya' envy and jealousy is something. Keep ya head up girl and keep it Growing strong and healthy.

 

[Enchantmt]

I'm really sorry someone was so mean spirited to put negative comments in your fotki, but if you are going to take issue with it, do it in your fotki acct or via PM's. I dont mind the posts about the issue, expressing your anger or telling us what happened, but when you start naming names then things get escalated, folx start taking sides and the overall tone of the board starts to decline.

TIA

 

[cocowhite]

Oh ok I know who you're talking about now!


I guess we know who it is then!! Shame on her!!! I hope for the "acccused's" sake there was a mess up. I will say that here at my dorm, on mu comp, I have gotten a strange error msg saying there is a conflict with my IP address and another IP address on the network. Oh well....

If she had questions, she coulda asked you.[/QUOTE]

When you usually get that message (the one in bold) is that there is another computer that may have the same IP address as your work PC, which really has nothing to do with the internet in an work environment it just serves as an ID for your network administrator, but your internet access IP address should be the same the throughout the company and can be linked the same way at home too, so each computer can access the internet using the same static IP address, but the network administrator can see which computers are online by looking at the assigned (name excapes me right now) IP address and mind you not all computers need an individual IP address, it can be networked to randomly get an IP address everytime it is booted up as long as the ethernet card is connect it can still access the internet. Now if you want to check who the IP address belongs to go to senderbase.org it will tell you.

 

[brownsugar9999]

Naaaw... cause the "suspect" left a message so conveniently after the previous anonymous comment trying to make it like it obviously wasn't her. I don't trust anyone.

"Suspect", jealousy is not a good look sweety . Stop hating!

Hey!!!!!
I still luv u man...group hug

 

[Candy_C]

I'm really sorry someone was so mean spirited to put negative comments in your fotki, but if you are going to take issue with it, do it in your fotki acct or via PM's. I dont mind the posts about the issue, expressing your anger or telling us what happened, but when you start naming names then things get escalated, folx start taking sides and the overall tone of the board starts to decline.

TIA

ok thats cool, i'll delete the message i posted with her name on

edited to say: oops you already have! thanks. i understand what your saying

 

[Lady_Lioness]

I DON'T FEEL CANDY C HAS TO DO THAT, SHE HAS NOTHING TO PROVE TO ANYONE BUT HERSELF. SHE IS TRYING TO ACHEIVE A GOAL AND HOPEFULLY INSPIRES OTHERS TOO.

I agree with this 100%...she shouldn't have to prove to anyone, anything..she made her fotki mainly for her own pleasure not for unknown ppl...to come up in there and trash talk.

It's just wrong.

 

[BerrySweet]

You can see LHC posters' IP Addresses??

Yes Ma'am. You can see anyone's IP address if you have IP logging enabling on your Fotki. It should be under "security setting," or something of the sort.

Lord, why do people have to act like this and try to ruin a good thing for everyone?? Now everyone will have the IP logging enabled...now a bad thing though!

ETA:

When you usually get that message (the one in bold) is that there is another computer that may have the same IP address as your work PC, which really has nothing to do with the internet in an work environment it just serves as an ID for your network administrator, but your internet access IP address should be the same the throughout the company and can be linked the same way at home too, so each computer can access the internet using the same static IP address, but the network administrator can see which computers are online by looking at the assigned (name excapes me right now) IP address and mind you not all computers need an individual IP address, it can be networked to randomly get an IP address everytime it is booted up as long as the ethernet card is connect it can still access the internet. Now if you want to check who the IP address belongs to go to senderbase.org it will tell you.

Wow Coco you are on point with the info girl!!!!!

 

[brownsugar9999]

When you usually get that message (the one in bold) is that there is another computer that may have the same IP address as your work PC, which really has nothing to do with the internet in an work environment it just serves as an ID for your network administrator, but your internet access IP address should be the same the throughout the company and can be linked the same way at home too, so each computer can access the internet using the same static IP address, but the network administrator can see which computers are online by looking at the assigned (name excapes me right now) IP address and mind you not all computers need an individual IP address, it can be networked to randomly get an IP address everytime it is booted up as long as the ethernet card is connect it can still access the internet. Now if you want to check who the IP address belongs to go to senderbase.org it will tell you.

Dayum...I love it...I'm affiliated w/ a bunch of detectives!!!!!! Where were you guys when....

 

[Sazzy4Evr]

That's so sad to hear Candy_C . But, ur hair is amazing! Ur hard work is paying off! Just keep ur head up, ignore negative people even though it may be hard, and swing ur hair in the wind! If u don't mind, can u post ur regimen or PM me?

P.S. so1913 I was going to write the lyrics to "Backstabbers" too. lol.

 

[Eiano]

Personally, I'd take it as a compliment. Women who can't believe that hair can grow that long because THEIRS can't grow that long. It's just jealousy.
So

 

[wyldcurlz]

unfortunately "haters" are out there in full force! i recently had an experience with them...just when i thought they'd all been drowned in a big jar of "hater-ade." yes, jealousy i sout there and rearing its ugly, green head. just IGNORE them!!! You know what you did to your hair. you know all you did to take care of it. i don't know why this ugly jealousy looms large. and sadly, it seems most prevalent in the black community. its sad. but you've got groups like LHCF - where you're going to get (mostly) positive, loving, helpful people. just bask in the glory of those who appreciate your hair and all that you've done to get it to where it is and all you are doing to maintain it. ignore the haters!! they're stupid!

 

[Enchantmt]

ok thats cool, i'll delete the message i posted with her name on

edited to say: oops you already have! thanks. i understand what your saying

I already removed her name, you dont have to delete the entire post.

 

[Candy_C]

Hey, I know EXACTLY how u feel girl.
Someone also left a Weave comment in my album. U want to try and brush it offf but it really and truly hurts. All the hard work u go thru for your hair and somebody just going say its a weave.. u literally feel like killin that person..well thats how I felt.
I finally got over it. The ladies of LHCF are very supportive and u know what u got Btw, your hair is very pretty.

thats exactly how i felt!! its like "are you taking the pis* or what?" then i thought "omg what if people really think my hair is fake!!! all my advice means nothing" then i thought i know its my hair! but i had 2 tell it on here, and ur right about the LHCF ladies. thanks alot comin 4m someone who knows directly

 

[sylver2]

Now everyone will have the IP logging enabled...now a bad thing though!

ETA:

Just enabled mine
DAMN!! I wish I knew about that IP thing b4

 

[sylver2]

thats exactly how i felt!! its like "are you taking the pis* or what?" then i thought "omg what if people really think my hair is fake!!! all my advice means nothing" then i thought i know its my hair! but i had 2 tell it on here, and ur right about the LHCF ladies. thanks alot comin 4m someone who knows directly

OMG exactly how I felt. I'm thinking if this one person thinks its a weave then what does everyone else think. U get paranoid and hurt, I know girl, I know....lol

 

[~Nigeria~]

Hey!!!!!
I still luv u man...group hug

Right back at ya babe!

 

[brownsugar9999]

Just enabled mine
DAMN!! I wish I knew about that IP thing b4

Mee toooo!

 

[CinnaMocha]

Sorry you had to endure that Candy C. That was just plain wrong on that person's part. Crabs in a barrel mentality, when will some of us ever learn?

 

[Candy_C]

oh my life! that site is GOOD! i found out her address and everything!!!! i'm going to compare it to her location this board and that will finally tell me the definate answer! Sherlock holmes in the house!

 

[brownsugar9999]

OMG exactly how I felt. I'm thinking if this one person thinks its a weave then what does everyone else think. U get paranoid and hurt, I know girl, I know....lol

I've learned...if it isn't affecting m check...then it can go to heck!!! Don't care!

 

[BrickbyBrick]

I'm sorry that happened to you Candy. let 'em hate. You've got better things to do, like chill with the positive people on this board. And show us amateurs how to grow some real dang hair..no pun intended

 

[Candy_C]

OMG exactly how I felt. I'm thinking if this one person thinks its a weave then what does everyone else think. U get paranoid and hurt, I know girl, I know....lol

this mass of protein is connected to our hearts!

 

[Lady_Lioness]

Lock it up girl, you can't trust the niceness of people on the board all of the time. And while it's obvious that "anon" was/is jealous, these comments still hurt.

Girl, I am just about to do that right now...Some ppl are just 2 damn sick 4 me.

 

[Sistaslick]

now I'm thinking... may it isn't her...if she has AOL...don't most AOL folks have this same mask IP or something . . . that originates from a HQ somewhere in Virginia? we had an IP sleuthing issue on another site and some folks all had the same IPs b/c they were accessing the net through earthlink or AOL or something...just a guess? I'm just hoping for her sake . ..

 

[Candy_C]

now I'm thinking... may it isn't her...if she has AOL...don't most AOL folks have this same mask IP or something . . . that originates from a HQ somewhere in Virginia? we had an IP sleuthing issue on another site and some folks all had the same IPs b/c they were accessing the net through earthlink or AOL or something...just a guess? I'm just hoping for her sake . ..

hmm on lhcf she says her state is GA

on the site is says VA

argh! i'm confused. all i kno is it was the same said address thats why i wondered are i.p's unique

even so, the person was a member from lhcf as they knew my password. everything else fits

 

[brownsugar9999]

Alrighty, detectives....last month I put my diamond bracelet on the counter, went to take a bath, was home alone, and t disappeared......what happened to it???

 

[so1913]

hmm on lhcf she says her state is GA

on the site is says VA

argh! i'm confused. all i kno is it was the same said address thats why i wondered are i.p's unqiue

That would be some coincidence...

 

[Crackers Phinn]

Oh I agree that the person shouldn't have left ANY comment.

I'm just giving Ms. Candy some ammunition so, if somebody else wants to roll up on her hair she can point to the scalp picture and be like "BREAK YO SELF FOOL!"

Ok, maybe she wouldn't say all that, but ya'll get what I'm saying. Some pictures are harder to argue with.

 

[BerrySweet]

hmm on lhcf she says her state is GA

on the site is says VA

argh! i'm confused. all i kno is it was the same said address thats why i wondered are i.p's unique

even so, the person was a member from lhcf as they knew my password. everything else fits

Eh, might as well give up the search darling. PM her and ask her-even though she'll probably deny it. That's all you can do, don't let her affect you anymore. She knows she's caught, and she's hiding. We'll probably never hear from her again. (((hugs)))