Glib Gurl
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So, I'm reading (and, somehow miraculously implementing) the book The Four Man Plan. While it's partially written tongue-in-cheek, the basic idea is that in order to find true love you need to date multiple men at the same time.
Now, what I found interesting is that the author (who is a comic, not a sociologist or therapist) said that on date #2, you should let the guy know that he's in competition for you and say something along the lines of "Of all the guys I'm dating, you're the cutest/funniest/smartest...."
While I get the idea of dating more than one person at a time, I don't feel like you have to put it up in somebody's face like that. I mean, if some guy said to me, "Of all the girls I'm dating, you're the [fill-in-the-blank]-est...." that would be a real turn off. I mean, I think it's just assumed (at least by guys) that unless you become exclusive then you're dating other people . . . why throw it out there like that?
What do y'all think of this strategy?
(Either way, I'm not implementing it because I just think it's bad manners . . . but still interested in what you all have to say.)
Now, what I found interesting is that the author (who is a comic, not a sociologist or therapist) said that on date #2, you should let the guy know that he's in competition for you and say something along the lines of "Of all the guys I'm dating, you're the cutest/funniest/smartest...."
While I get the idea of dating more than one person at a time, I don't feel like you have to put it up in somebody's face like that. I mean, if some guy said to me, "Of all the girls I'm dating, you're the [fill-in-the-blank]-est...." that would be a real turn off. I mean, I think it's just assumed (at least by guys) that unless you become exclusive then you're dating other people . . . why throw it out there like that?
What do y'all think of this strategy?
(Either way, I'm not implementing it because I just think it's bad manners . . . but still interested in what you all have to say.)