Nonjudgmental people enter only please

I was glad to see the mention was from you preciouslove0x. I've been thinking about you alot. I think you are at a point in your life where you have to put you and yours first. Not in a selfish way. Just in a you deserve the absolute best and anything less is unacceptable way. No more constantly putting other peoples feelings before your own.
I know you thought this girl was your friend. but if your suspicions are true (which seems likely from what you've posted) she is an accessory. Also if this girl has issues, they're honestly not your problem. you can't take care of anyone until you put yourself first. Anyhow it's not good to have friends that are emotionally manipulative, they can really funk you up.
When it comes to legal advice idt a hair board is the best place for it. I think the time has come for you to report it (if you're ready of course). you ask whether you should do it via uni or the police. Why not both?

Do not beat yourself up. this man is a pervert. he takes advantage of women when they're vulnerable. You're not stupid, or naive. I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you.

(i'm sorry this is piecey bitsy advice, It's late where i am. I'll post again tomorrow)
 
OP it is NOT too late to press charges! I would report it to the police because schools have a way of sweeping things under the rug or handling them in-house and not giving just punishment. You owe it to yourself to have justice served so go to the real police!
 
OP, I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. I don't know exactly what happened between yesterday and today, but please know that you have to get away from that woman. IMO, she's even more dangerous, because you'd better believe that she noticed her man's "attraction" to you. I doubt that he was high during any of those incidents and like she eluded to you, she doesn't want to be lonely and was desperate enough to serve up one of her friends to make sure that that predator didn't leave her. Please disassociate with these people. Things are going to get more difficult between you two, as this guy is already working on her. Soon enough, he'll be around that apartment again because she'll think 'you're over it'. Get your final out of the way, make plans to move, and get outta there!
 
I reported the incident to the police AND the university yesterday. I feel so much better. Thanks everyone.

And for anyone going through a situation like this, take heed and REPORT THE BASTARD TO THE POLICE! Don't wash your clothes thinking you'll get over it. It's not that easy. And even if you don't want an open investigation you can always just report it and make the case active anytime thereafter.
 
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Throw the book at that :censored: pervert and his sick whore!

Yes I feel that strong.

With that update I just wanna beat them up myself.

Hope you went to campus police and city cops. They raked your emotions through the mud. Why not at the least ruin their names and have their records marked with rape charges?!? They deserve everything they get. They are sick. And trust you won't be the last unless they get the message.

You deserve justice. Plain and simple.

Stay at another place while the police question the whore. If they don't arrest both on the spot, you don't know what she is capable of when they leave. SHE PARTICIPATED IN RAPE! She could assault you and your property for telling. And then get his sick f___k arse in it.

Get support from other friends and family. They deserve to know and unless.they suck, your parents will want to know to better protect their baby and offer comfort.

Blessings and strong energy to you for the fight ahead.

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*.~.*Sent from a distant Galaxy in the Unicorn-verse*.~.*
 
Thanks for the update!

I am praying for you! You did the right thing. Your roommate and her boyfriend are just some sick puppies.

Believe it or not, couples have done this to girls (who are supposed to be friends) before. Good for you. I want to see the sicko in jail.
 
preciouslove0x

I'm praying for you lady, for your mental and physical strength during this ordeal, for strength to get through your finals and for your well being.

I cosign with the ladies regarding reporting it! What she did to you was horrible and disgusting and they are liable to do it again or to others.

Please see your school's counselor and pleasssseeeee find somewhere else to live! Try bringing it up with the counselor

:bighug: :hug2:
 
So glad to hear a positive update (counseling, reporting). And good job on reporting to both! I love universities, but there has been a lot of press lately about the unethical things they do in terms of not reporting sexual crimes.

If you can move, do it. Get away from her. I don't joke at mental illness, but homegirl sounds CRAZY!

For now since you have to live with her, document anything odd. It may help in the future.
 
preciouslove0x girl I just read this thread and even though I didn't see the OP, I figured it out. I I stopped so many times to pray for you. I'm so proud of how you are handling this whole situation. I'm so so glad you report those f@@k faces to the police. I hope you continue to get some counseling through this process. You might ( or currently) go through PTSD ( Post Traumatic Stress Disorder ), so please talk to a experienced therapist/counselor/psychologist. Plus if you "ok"your Dr or Counselor to aid you in trial, it can help your case.

I went through a traumatic experience when i was in college and I went to campus counselor because I was having flashbacks, nightmares, and I couldn't get that day out my mind. That counselor was a God Send because I didn't realize I how angry I was and going there provided me a safe space to get my emotions out and not let it consume me. I know you probably don't want to hear my past trauma experience, I'm only telling you this because I hope you continue to get help emotionally and legally. I pray you have some support system physically round you. If you don't want to tell your parents, do you have somebody older and wise in your life that you could talk to? I know you don't know me from Adam, but I will PM you my info if you ever need to vent out your emotions. I don't know where you live, but I work in healthcare and I can find some resources through people I work with.

Also get out that apt asap! My advice is to also tell campus security and your campus Student Life/Housing. They might put you temporary in a private dorm. I have more suggestions, but..... hold up does your roommate post on here or did you ever login here on her computer or phone? Sorry for the 20 questions. Again I'm proud of your courage and strength. I'm praying for you! You know your sistas here at LHCF got ya back! (Dont laugh at my 90s slang lol!)
Take care :)
 
preciouslove0x




Yayyyyyyyyyyy. Your my hero because I could totally relate to the caring for people, wanting to help them and sacrificing my emotions and wellbeing for that person. I think I probably would of shut it inside and kept it to myself had this ever happened to me, BUT your strength and courage just influenced me more than you'll ever know. God Bless you


Preciouslive0x
 
You are brave preciouslove0x Take time to reflect and be safe. You can get healed from this! Please seek a counselor who is qualified to deal with sexual violence and assault. They can help you! PM me anytime!

*hugs*
 
hopeful said:
Maybe all of us should pray for preciouslove0x. Group prayer really works. Dear Lord, please watch over our sweet, young, innocent sister. Fill her with your love and adoration. Let her know that she is still precious in your sight. Dear God, let her feel all of our love and support. I pray with all my heart that you heal quickly and can get on with your life. You deserve all that you've been working for and dreaming of. In Jesus name and all that is good and holy I see you now whole, healed, lovable, and precious. Amen.

All religions, spiritualities welcome.

@Shimmie and
@Nice & Wavy please come. We need your prayers.
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hopeful I am just seeing this..I never got the tag:nono:, I just happened to see this thread title and came inside. I don't know what happened (I see the OP deleted the original post), but I will be praying for the OP. Thank you for thinking of me to come into the thread and pray...I appreciate you.
 
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