blasianbeauty
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the man (baby daddy) doesn't want them to be friends.
Quick background - My friend is dating a man that has a baby (8 months old) and they have been dating since the child was a few months old. He has never introduced my friend to the BM but all of a sudden about a month ago he took my friend over to the BM's house to drop his baby girl off. BM saw my friend in his car, and waved to her so she waved back.
Last night my friend and her man went to take his baby girl back to BM. BM was in her car as they pulled up, and BD (baby daddy) proceeds to get his daughter out of the car seat to give to BM. He didn't give an introduction or anything, so the BM got out of her car and went to my friend and introduced herself and they were both pleasant to each other. The BM proceeded to tell my friend that if she's going to be spending time with her child, then she'd like for the two of them to get acquainted and my friend said "sure".
Here's the thing - as BM proceeded to give my friend her info, the BD cut her off and said "it's time to go".
If you were my friend, how would you take this? It's as if he doesn't want them to get acquainted, but my friend spends time with their daughter.
I told her what I thought, I'd just like to know if I'm in the minority here or if I'm correct.
Thoughts?
Quick background - My friend is dating a man that has a baby (8 months old) and they have been dating since the child was a few months old. He has never introduced my friend to the BM but all of a sudden about a month ago he took my friend over to the BM's house to drop his baby girl off. BM saw my friend in his car, and waved to her so she waved back.
Last night my friend and her man went to take his baby girl back to BM. BM was in her car as they pulled up, and BD (baby daddy) proceeds to get his daughter out of the car seat to give to BM. He didn't give an introduction or anything, so the BM got out of her car and went to my friend and introduced herself and they were both pleasant to each other. The BM proceeded to tell my friend that if she's going to be spending time with her child, then she'd like for the two of them to get acquainted and my friend said "sure".
Here's the thing - as BM proceeded to give my friend her info, the BD cut her off and said "it's time to go".
If you were my friend, how would you take this? It's as if he doesn't want them to get acquainted, but my friend spends time with their daughter.
I told her what I thought, I'd just like to know if I'm in the minority here or if I'm correct.
Thoughts?