janiebaby
Well-Known Member
You ladies are good on advice and I've been thinking about posting this for awhile but now I need help quick!!! Please help....
So this guy who I'm not interested in who I work with in some capacity though not closely asked me out to lunch. I accepted and had a nice time and all but I'm not interested in him at all. I thought maybe we could be friends but since he clearly has an interest in me and since the interest is more of an upfront thing instead of a developing thing...I have to cut it off. I don't believe in wasting anyone's time and playing with their emotions.
I think our relationship may become strained but the whole reason I exchange numbers and accepted going to lunch was so that we could be friends. I'm not too skilled on how to turn men who have an interest in you into a friend but please someone come in and tell me what to do...
He called my office phone (which I hate) and asked me to go out with him on Thursday I said ok (which was wrong) but in the back of my head I was trying to by more time to figure out the right words to say.
So this guy who I'm not interested in who I work with in some capacity though not closely asked me out to lunch. I accepted and had a nice time and all but I'm not interested in him at all. I thought maybe we could be friends but since he clearly has an interest in me and since the interest is more of an upfront thing instead of a developing thing...I have to cut it off. I don't believe in wasting anyone's time and playing with their emotions.
I think our relationship may become strained but the whole reason I exchange numbers and accepted going to lunch was so that we could be friends. I'm not too skilled on how to turn men who have an interest in you into a friend but please someone come in and tell me what to do...
He called my office phone (which I hate) and asked me to go out with him on Thursday I said ok (which was wrong) but in the back of my head I was trying to by more time to figure out the right words to say.