mscocoface
Well-Known Member
I am not sure I am understanding. You posted this..."he just got his own place like 3 months ago ".
Where was he living before?
When was his divorce final?
What exactly do you need help with? To tell you if this is normal or right? To tell you if you should stay and how to make it work? What?
If you two both wanted the same thing. He would find time even with the 4 kids. If he isn't willing to work to build this relationship now and you have been together for 6 years and this is all you both have to show for it, what would make him want to do more.
Life is messy and there will NEVER be an ideal time to make this relationship stronger unless you both decide to wait until ALL the children are out of the house and on their own. But you can't even be guaranteed that will happen.
I can only give advice and this situation is not progressing as if it is serious enough to work through with everything else. Sometimes that may be the answer you both have a total of 6 little lives you have responsibility for right now.
I can't make that decision but you two hardly talk on the phone and he is hesitant for you to see his place and you have been together for 6 years. If I was posting and saying this to you what would you tell me to do?
Where was he living before?
When was his divorce final?
What exactly do you need help with? To tell you if this is normal or right? To tell you if you should stay and how to make it work? What?
If you two both wanted the same thing. He would find time even with the 4 kids. If he isn't willing to work to build this relationship now and you have been together for 6 years and this is all you both have to show for it, what would make him want to do more.
Life is messy and there will NEVER be an ideal time to make this relationship stronger unless you both decide to wait until ALL the children are out of the house and on their own. But you can't even be guaranteed that will happen.
I can only give advice and this situation is not progressing as if it is serious enough to work through with everything else. Sometimes that may be the answer you both have a total of 6 little lives you have responsibility for right now.
I can't make that decision but you two hardly talk on the phone and he is hesitant for you to see his place and you have been together for 6 years. If I was posting and saying this to you what would you tell me to do?
