Hold up, this is what I don't get: when I was lurking, I read tons of posts about how "wet hair is more fragile and should not be manipulated a lot."
Pulling your hair into a bun while it's wet must surely be a major no-no then, right?
Wait, you're natural, right? How can you do a "wet bun" on straightened hair without it reverting?
Doesn't the castor oil stay oily all day, though and never fully absorb? I know my hair is fine and that might be part of the problem , but that stuff is very heavy, even for thicker hair types, I'd imagine.
My sister kept asking me today why my fingernails were wet, and I couldn't tell her it was because I had just reached up to scratch my (castor-oiled) hair. She would have kicked my butt.