I only straightened my hair now. I trust very few people with my hair (currently my sister and my cousin). I moved about 900 miles away so I had to learn how to do it myself. I've been trying since 2006 and I just found a good method in January 2008. I band my damp hair after applying Motions Leave In Conditioner and make 8 ponytails and airdry overnight. The next day I unband each ponytail one at a time, apply Murray's Creme Beeswax and flat iron with the Maxglide on 8. The key for me was finding a good product. Oils worked for me for flat ironing, but it made my hair very thin and of course oily.