Ok now you're showing yourself. Are you saying the life of one natural with kids is the same as another natural with kids? Because Natural Mom A has found a haircare method that works for her - factoring in all other elements (time, finances, workload, home assistance, spouse, family connection, etc etc etc ) that means that Natural Mom B must be deficient in some way because she's considering a different hair care option?
It very well may not be different. On the other hand it could change her world. Who are we to know? She asked a question about other's experiences in texturizing her hair. Tossed in a passing mention about how she's a new mom and is looking for a change that may help her deal with her new life. She didn't ask for a validation of your take on her "excuse" for texturizing.
Not in my house. My texturized hair is much easier and faster to deal with than when I was natural.
I'll probably regret this but HOW would it be different? From where I sit, her reasons are irrelevant. I could say truthfully that I texturized my hair for a variety of reasons including - it took too long, the results didn't last long enough, and I didn't enjoy it. Oh and honestly? My dog needed more attention. I was wasting time on my hair when I could've been caring for her.