This recently happened to me so i can really sympathize. Just be patient and continue taking care of your hair as if nothing happened; hair grows back. Your hair is very shiny and beautiful if i may add.
What does your husband know about cutting hair? The hair at the top of your head will not meet up with the end at the nape will it? I'm sorry but stylist should listen to the client, and the client should be able to tell the stylist what they want.