IMFOCSD
Well-Known Member
Me, my 2brothers and my SO were having a conversation about why people spend so much time on the internet. I told him I spend so much time on LHCF because I feel a connection to the members of LHCF. Even though most of us are so far apart we still communicate with each other everyday. So he goes on and on about.....something, I forgot (I started tunning him out because he was annoying me a little).
Anyway, So I remind him that my hair has been growing since I have been a member of LHCF. He had the nerve to say, "you have been doing the same thing to your hair for six months and it has not grown that much! " My feelings were hurt and I wanted to I could not believe that comment came out of his mouth. I swear I wanted to turn to him and I know he feels that I do too much to my hair but now I know he feels that all my hard work is really not helping any.
So I try to explain to him about finding the right products, regimen etc and I tell him that it takes time. So he says, "it takes six months"? Yall, I am like so down right now! When I began taking care of my hair it was nape length and now it is at the end of my neck. I was starting to feel good about myself and my hair, now he has flushed all that self esteem I finally built down the drain. He did not say it in a mean way....but he said it and that must be how he feels so....I don't know...maybe I am being too sensitive. Should I let him know that he has hurt me? or should I just let it go? Even though I know this will pass and I'll get over it...It is still bothering me.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
So I try to explain to him about finding the right products, regimen etc and I tell him that it takes time. So he says, "it takes six months"? Yall, I am like so down right now! When I began taking care of my hair it was nape length and now it is at the end of my neck. I was starting to feel good about myself and my hair, now he has flushed all that self esteem I finally built down the drain. He did not say it in a mean way....but he said it and that must be how he feels so....I don't know...maybe I am being too sensitive. Should I let him know that he has hurt me? or should I just let it go? Even though I know this will pass and I'll get over it...It is still bothering me.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.