Since I was 15, I've been a 3rd wheel, 5th wheel or whatever else there can be. It was the only way I could hang out with my friends so what was I to do?
In college, most of my years were spent being the 5th wheel at lunch and everything else. In college, it's even worse b/c you all "live together" on campus. So every breakfast, lunch, and dinner consisted of 2 couples and me. I "thought" I was part of "it" but I later realized that on weeks off from school they all got together without me. I dealt.
Now, it's easily 15+ years later and how do I spend my fridays? My best co-worker and I always go to lunch together on Fridays. She has a boyfriend and he has been asking to come to lunch with us - only b/c she won't dump me to go with him alone. So once again, I am the third wheel.
I smile, have fun, enjoy.
After work, I have happy hour planned with a friend to talk about the guy who did her wrong and talk about never-ending singleness.
Can I just say:
IT'S GETTING SO OLD!!!!!! I am so tired of this life!
I want to be able to say "No, I can't go to happy hour b/c my husband and I are going out to dinner."
I want to be able to say "Let me invite my boyfriend to lunch with us."
But no. I smile and am happy and I go along with it - why? What choice do I even have?
I'm just so tired of it. I just wonder how it is that since I was 15, nothing has changed. 20 years and it's all the same.
(Not looking to have a pity party but I just needed to get that out.)
In college, most of my years were spent being the 5th wheel at lunch and everything else. In college, it's even worse b/c you all "live together" on campus. So every breakfast, lunch, and dinner consisted of 2 couples and me. I "thought" I was part of "it" but I later realized that on weeks off from school they all got together without me. I dealt.
Now, it's easily 15+ years later and how do I spend my fridays? My best co-worker and I always go to lunch together on Fridays. She has a boyfriend and he has been asking to come to lunch with us - only b/c she won't dump me to go with him alone. So once again, I am the third wheel.
I smile, have fun, enjoy.
After work, I have happy hour planned with a friend to talk about the guy who did her wrong and talk about never-ending singleness.
Can I just say:
IT'S GETTING SO OLD!!!!!! I am so tired of this life!
I want to be able to say "No, I can't go to happy hour b/c my husband and I are going out to dinner."
I want to be able to say "Let me invite my boyfriend to lunch with us."
But no. I smile and am happy and I go along with it - why? What choice do I even have?
I'm just so tired of it. I just wonder how it is that since I was 15, nothing has changed. 20 years and it's all the same.
(Not looking to have a pity party but I just needed to get that out.)