est.April1983
Well-Known Member
so my mom noticed that I just got a relaxer last month and I have NG all over the place I have 4b hair or d or f whatever its coarse kinky and thick. she said my perms used to last longer because I have soft hair and I said its not that my perm isn't lasting my hair is growing and this is my natural texture. so she says why don't u keep it short!!! I said I'm growing it out to APL (im 5.5 inches away) and she laughed at me and said my hair will never be that long hers never was and the longest length anyone in the family can have is shoulder length. she kepth laughing and said it would never happen. I felt so bad. I can have APL right and when I have kids with type for hair it will grow long too right? I'm so discouraged please share your stories with me if you came from short to long and you have the longest hair in your family