MY BF broke up with me and i need support!

ThatJerseyGirl said:
momma didn't pull out no newports cuz i couldn't understand half of what she was writing..i had to keep reading and reading so i was like phuckit lolol.....

but she'll be fine. and besides, on da real, i think he's gay. his attitude and everything to me tells me he's a DL. buff body, all da men were fine, and he got mad when she took a pick...yeah...uh huh. so truth be told, he did her a favor.

why want somebody that don't want you.
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1st thing that came to my mind when i read OP post. forget red, its a big pink flag. lol
i didn't want to say because people be tired of me calling every1 gay :lachen:
 
*CherryPie* said:
I finally got rid of a Police Officer a few months ago. He tried all the stuff that your ex tried, and MORE. The jealousy and the controlling was CRAZY! He tried to tell me that he was so jealous because I was so beautiful.......then why was he trying to change me? LOL

.................gone
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ThatJerseyGirl said:
momma didn't pull out no newports cuz i couldn't understand half of what she was writing..i had to keep reading and reading so i was like phuckit lolol.....

but she'll be fine. and besides, on da real, i think he's gay. his attitude and everything to me tells me he's a DL. buff body, all da men were fine, and he got mad when she took a pick...yeah...uh huh. so truth be told, he did her a favor.

why want somebody that don't want you.
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After reading the whole thread this sounds about right to me. TJG broke it down so no need to expound.
 
sweetvi said:
Thank you so much for thid podt... I woke up feeling bad again but I had to go to thisforum for strength. I have not called him since and I won't be calling. He can keep the jack for all I care! Imn in a new state with endless possibilites. New adventures and the chance to meet educated. New men who won't be annoyed by anything I say or do or not do or wear. I think he walked all over me because I was too nice! I guess its true what they say...... Men marry b****!
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I agree w/ everything you say except the men marry b#$$#! part. I have to revise that because I have definitely seen them marry b's but I've also seen them marry nice women. Nice doesn't mean accomodating, though. I hope you keep the sweetness but find a guy worthy of it.
 
He doesn't sound gay to me, just controlling. A man can be handsome and have handsome friends and not be gay. LOL
 
Today is the day I'm supposed to meet with him to retrieve my car jack. I must admit that as the days go by...the harder this is getting for me. I was so tempted to call several times but I know that would not be a gOod move! I'm also slightly wishing he would call as well to be honest with everyone I will continue to distract myself and keep reading this post for encouragement from everyone's comments. :-(
 
sweetvi said:
Today is the day I'm supposed to meet with him to retrieve my car jack. I must admit that as the days go by...the harder this is getting for me. I was so tempted to call several times but I know that would not be a gOod move! I'm also slightly wishing he would call as well to be honest with everyone I will continue to distract myself and keep reading this post for encouragement from everyone's comments. :-(
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It will be tough, and when you are in the thick of it, remind yourself that he was an arsehole and the one that did not deserve you. If you need to hide your phone from yourself, call a friend or family member to hang out. Just do you. Please fight through it and do not call his butt please. If you do, you will only feel worse as he will not give you what you are calling to receive.
He will act like he is the cats meow, while you beg, then ultimately feel defeated, rejected, and less than. :nono:

Instead, go out and treat yourself to a new dress, hair wash and set, drinks with the girls. Good luck babe. Let him go.:yep:
 
sweetvi said:
Today is the day I'm supposed to meet with him to retrieve my car jack. I must admit that as the days go by...the harder this is getting for me. I was so tempted to call several times but I know that would not be a gOod move! I'm also slightly wishing he would call as well to be honest with everyone I will continue to distract myself and keep reading this post for encouragement from everyone's comments. :-(
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Chile, please forget about that darn jack. Are you seriously trying to get a jack? How much are they? You can go to the junk yard and get one real cheap from a junked car.
 
I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It doesn't sound like anyone will ever please this guy. You are raelly better off as other posters have said.
 
nathansgirl1908 said:
Is it that serious to get the Jack or are you just using it as an excuse to gonover there and see him?

Move on and be happy
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THIS. I've never known anyone to really care about a jack like that. Let it go. You've gone this long without it. Just make a detour when you start heading toward his house and go to AutoZone or Advance Auto Parts. They'll hook you up without the drama :yep:

Don't do it. Don't use the jack as an excuse. Seriously. :nono:
 
I seriously don't understand why you are going there for a jack.... they are like 10 at the junk yard and 50 for a heavy duty floor jack.... MOVE ON.... it is not worth it....erase his number put a block on it and buy yourself something pretty......
 
sweetvi said:
I did not call nor text nor try to do anything to get in contact with him. Of course I plan to get a new jack and I know its not worth it. Just wanted to vent and was kinda weak at the time. Thanks everyone for the help. I guess I'm stronger than I thought I was!!
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You are. It will be tough at times, but fight through it. Don't do anything you will regret or that will bring you pain. My best advice is to not react off of your emotions. Idle time is the devils time, and when you are just giving yourself time to sit and think, you will be tempted.

Try to keep busy and move on with your life. There is still life without him.
 
Sweetvi (((((((HUGS))))))) You rock girl! I am loving how you are sorting this thing out and seeing how strong you are. Love it!
 
If you have a friend near by take them with you. I've. Done it for my buffs before and I usually makes it easier.
 
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