missnurselady
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I have been TRYING to take care of my bestfriends hair over the last 6 months or so because I got tired of her walking around looking crazy. When I first relaxed her hair back in June 07 I noticed that her nape was broken off, it was like 4 inches long, her hair is about APL in the back, I assumed it was because she always wears her hair either in a a ponytail at the nape or she just twist it up and holds it with a bobbypin. I told her that she should rotate the spots where she puts her ponytails and not to have them too tight. Did she listen...NO! She also has a problem with dandruff so I purchased some Sulfur 8 poo, she says she doesnt like the smell, it gives her a headache, then I purchased the Glovers medicated solution and told her I will only use it before I wash her hair, again she turned her nose up at the smell and refused to let me use it on her. Tried head and shoulders, did nothing. So back to regular CON shampoo and DCIng but she complains that it takes too long and its too many steps to get her hair washed and roller set. I can only do her hair once a month, because I work and go to school full time, so I told her she needs to wash and DC her hair atleast once a week, she never did it. I told her she needs to moisturize her hair daily if it feels dry, she doesnt. I told her to stop using fine tooth combs when combing her hair, did didnt I also told her not to curl dirty hair, she still does. Now whenever I actually wash her hair im sickend by the odor, the dandruff, the shedding and the breakage. Her hair grows fast but it is just thin and long and unhealthy looking. I try to tell her how important it is to take care of her hair but she doesnt care, and now im starting to feel like why should I care if she doesnt. I tell her about LHCF all the time and she just makes fun of it. Im at the point now where I dont care if she is goes bald! Am I wrong?