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I am curious to know if anyone has had a successful relationship dating their best friend's brother.
I have known my best friend for 10 years...we have been through a lot of ups and downs, I truly know she has my back.
Not only am I good friends with her, I know a lot of her family members, we even travel together. I met her brother (he live out of state, thank goodness) 5 years ago at my friend's wedding......he was very cordial, seeing he was with his wife.
I know what you are thinking but NO, nothing happened at that point!
Fast forward to a family gathering to celebrate my friends daughter birthday about 2 years ago. As I was going into her house, he standing outside with his aunt. He made some kind of smart remark, I just smiled and went inside, still nothing.
Fast forward to this past summer on a trip to Jamaica, he decides to come along. Before the trip my friend is like, my brother asked about you. I was like ok, but I did not think anything about it. However during the trip, after plenty of "chance" encounters (set ups), I opened up to him a little bit and found out he is really nice. (If you were wondering about the wife, well she is now the ex-wife). There is a definite attraction between us, but I did not put too much stock into it....you now how summer romances go.
As I said before he lives out of state, we email/phone each other from time to time, but now his sister (my best friend) brings him up to me daily, as if she wants to know if I feel anything for him.
I really do not want to mess up my friendship with my friend over her brother.....what do you think I should do?
I have known my best friend for 10 years...we have been through a lot of ups and downs, I truly know she has my back.
Not only am I good friends with her, I know a lot of her family members, we even travel together. I met her brother (he live out of state, thank goodness) 5 years ago at my friend's wedding......he was very cordial, seeing he was with his wife.
I know what you are thinking but NO, nothing happened at that point!
Fast forward to a family gathering to celebrate my friends daughter birthday about 2 years ago. As I was going into her house, he standing outside with his aunt. He made some kind of smart remark, I just smiled and went inside, still nothing.
Fast forward to this past summer on a trip to Jamaica, he decides to come along. Before the trip my friend is like, my brother asked about you. I was like ok, but I did not think anything about it. However during the trip, after plenty of "chance" encounters (set ups), I opened up to him a little bit and found out he is really nice. (If you were wondering about the wife, well she is now the ex-wife). There is a definite attraction between us, but I did not put too much stock into it....you now how summer romances go.
As I said before he lives out of state, we email/phone each other from time to time, but now his sister (my best friend) brings him up to me daily, as if she wants to know if I feel anything for him.
I really do not want to mess up my friendship with my friend over her brother.....what do you think I should do?