seraphinelle
Well-Known Member
I'm pretty sure this is my first relationship thread.
As many of you know, I am an optometry intern, due to finish either July or September of this year. I'm a dual citizen of Canada and Britain, but I'm studying in Britain right now.
I wouldn't be returning to Canada any sooner than February 2011 because that's when the conversion course (6 weeks) would commence.
So that gives you a rough timeline.
Oh, and I'm 26, almost 27.
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I met Mr Canada July 2009. He's very good looking, we can engage in good conversation, he comes from a good family, very gentlemanly in the way he treats me and has expressed on many occasions how much he likes me.
Here's the problem.
I'm sure Mr Canada has aspirations, many people do. But if you don't put them into motion, nothing will come of them. It's that simple. I'm a very goal orientated person; I'm resilient and I'm a do-er.
Mr Canada currently works as a customer service rep at a call centre. I can't even say that he aspires to climb the company (which can be done very quickly) because he does the bare minimum at the job to keep the job.
He says he wants to go to med school. Which means a decade literally of him being in school, when he's 26 years old.
We have not been intimate AT ALL. Because I intend to keep the relationship completely platonic. But he has given me very little incentive or motivation to return to Canada for a relationship, if he's missing so many fundamental properties that are important to me.
He's a good guy, and a I definitely see it. And we mesh in other areas outside of our education and goal levels.
But then conversely, those two aspects of a relationship are important to me.
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So... I'm looking for advice or comments rather of women that have been or haven't been in similar situations.
I'm pretty sure that I won't pursue this. But curious nonetheless.
Thank you.
If I'm missing any details that might aid in formulating a better response, just ask.
As many of you know, I am an optometry intern, due to finish either July or September of this year. I'm a dual citizen of Canada and Britain, but I'm studying in Britain right now.
I wouldn't be returning to Canada any sooner than February 2011 because that's when the conversion course (6 weeks) would commence.
So that gives you a rough timeline.
Oh, and I'm 26, almost 27.
******
I met Mr Canada July 2009. He's very good looking, we can engage in good conversation, he comes from a good family, very gentlemanly in the way he treats me and has expressed on many occasions how much he likes me.
Here's the problem.
I'm sure Mr Canada has aspirations, many people do. But if you don't put them into motion, nothing will come of them. It's that simple. I'm a very goal orientated person; I'm resilient and I'm a do-er.
Mr Canada currently works as a customer service rep at a call centre. I can't even say that he aspires to climb the company (which can be done very quickly) because he does the bare minimum at the job to keep the job.
He says he wants to go to med school. Which means a decade literally of him being in school, when he's 26 years old.
We have not been intimate AT ALL. Because I intend to keep the relationship completely platonic. But he has given me very little incentive or motivation to return to Canada for a relationship, if he's missing so many fundamental properties that are important to me.
He's a good guy, and a I definitely see it. And we mesh in other areas outside of our education and goal levels.
But then conversely, those two aspects of a relationship are important to me.
*****
So... I'm looking for advice or comments rather of women that have been or haven't been in similar situations.
I'm pretty sure that I won't pursue this. But curious nonetheless.
Thank you.
If I'm missing any details that might aid in formulating a better response, just ask.