LiftedUp
Well-Known Member
What do you think about this scenario?
I met this guy... about a month ago. We talk whole day every single day via text and phone calls and I enjoy our conversations. He initiates it every single time.
Now I'm very picky and have consciously decided to date differently. I am typically attracted to alpha-ish, extroverted-ish type of guys and that was the personality of all of my exes. This guy is the absolute opposite of that. He's introverted and a homebody. I would've never seen myself with someone like him and he feels the same way regarding me.
During the time we've met I've been going out with my friends as usual and he has been at home doing w/e. We only went out on one date. My experience has been that during our last date we plan the next one or for the latest a day or two after. I was thinking that maybe he is just not that into me or it's something else. Also, he is for a fact single.
Though I don't particularly want to because I think I've found "the one", I've decided to start seeing other people because I'm beginning to resent this situation. I've also switched off my phone for the rest of the night (I get that I'm probably being too available) and have made plans for later.
What is your perspective on all of this? Now I want to be in a relationship with him, and I do think that he's a great guy, but to be honest, I think he needs to wine and dine me, buy me gifts, and convince me that he's the right guy for me and I'm not getting that.
I met this guy... about a month ago. We talk whole day every single day via text and phone calls and I enjoy our conversations. He initiates it every single time.
Now I'm very picky and have consciously decided to date differently. I am typically attracted to alpha-ish, extroverted-ish type of guys and that was the personality of all of my exes. This guy is the absolute opposite of that. He's introverted and a homebody. I would've never seen myself with someone like him and he feels the same way regarding me.
During the time we've met I've been going out with my friends as usual and he has been at home doing w/e. We only went out on one date. My experience has been that during our last date we plan the next one or for the latest a day or two after. I was thinking that maybe he is just not that into me or it's something else. Also, he is for a fact single.
Though I don't particularly want to because I think I've found "the one", I've decided to start seeing other people because I'm beginning to resent this situation. I've also switched off my phone for the rest of the night (I get that I'm probably being too available) and have made plans for later.
What is your perspective on all of this? Now I want to be in a relationship with him, and I do think that he's a great guy, but to be honest, I think he needs to wine and dine me, buy me gifts, and convince me that he's the right guy for me and I'm not getting that.