equestrian
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haha so most of you know it tends to be mom that causes all the ruckess when your trying to grow your hair out. When I first started my daily-cowashing routine my mom wouldn't notice my hair was wet as I would put the scarf on. She recently spotted me walking around with wet hair on a daily basis and of course she had to have an opinion. Here's what she's telling me everytime she sees that I co-washed my hair
1. I know you don't wanna listen to me but your going to "wear your hair out" if you get it wash all the time. See how your hair's all frizzy (I'm thinking mom I just woke up)
2. Washing your hair too much will dry it out(I responded saying I wasn't even using shampoo more than once a week, and she said that "simply getting it wet all the time will dry it out" huh? erplexed)
3. Getting your hair wet too much is not good if you want to grow your hair out
And she once asked me. "What are you using to condition it". And I know she belives in "white hair product and black hair product" thing, so I cautiously mumbled "um... garnier" under my breathe. (my dad ushually takes me to the CVS and I go in by myself so they don't really know what i use ) And she was like "You know that stuff's for white people right." And I told her it works really good on my hair and that people on hair forums use it. She goes "and these are black people right?". I'm say "both black and white people" Then proceeded to tell her that . All black hair needs is more moisture and a little less shampooing and thats about it. Then she mumbled something and stopped talking.
I'm actually currently waiting for her to go to her meeting so I can shampoo.
haha just sharing.
Oh any advice on how to convince her co-washing is fine. Or at least get it through her mind that it's my hair? So I don't have go all undercover just to co-wash my hair I'm thinking of showing her the "co-washing and bunning key 2 WL hair"
thread but considering her natural skeptical nature I'm sure she will think all you are wearing weaves.
1. I know you don't wanna listen to me but your going to "wear your hair out" if you get it wash all the time. See how your hair's all frizzy (I'm thinking mom I just woke up)
2. Washing your hair too much will dry it out(I responded saying I wasn't even using shampoo more than once a week, and she said that "simply getting it wet all the time will dry it out" huh? erplexed)
3. Getting your hair wet too much is not good if you want to grow your hair out
And she once asked me. "What are you using to condition it". And I know she belives in "white hair product and black hair product" thing, so I cautiously mumbled "um... garnier" under my breathe. (my dad ushually takes me to the CVS and I go in by myself so they don't really know what i use ) And she was like "You know that stuff's for white people right." And I told her it works really good on my hair and that people on hair forums use it. She goes "and these are black people right?". I'm say "both black and white people" Then proceeded to tell her that . All black hair needs is more moisture and a little less shampooing and thats about it. Then she mumbled something and stopped talking.
I'm actually currently waiting for her to go to her meeting so I can shampoo.
haha just sharing.
Oh any advice on how to convince her co-washing is fine. Or at least get it through her mind that it's my hair? So I don't have go all undercover just to co-wash my hair I'm thinking of showing her the "co-washing and bunning key 2 WL hair"
thread but considering her natural skeptical nature I'm sure she will think all you are wearing weaves.
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