I need it.... 14n1 is starting to make my hair feel gunky and it doesn't move when I have it it flat ironed (I use it as a mist of my hair like a leave in before flat ironing) and the carrot hot six oil is making my hair shiney (and oily) but it doesn't feel moisturized... what to do? I did a carrot oil and Aphogee moisture balance DC last night it felt soft until it began to dry then it was like oily hay... anu suggestions?