Me and my boyfriend found out june 26 that i was pregnant, from the beginning it didnt look good but i kept hope that i would continue full term. Friday july 21 i started stopping and later on miscarriaed i am very sad, because we both wanted this baby. I prayed for the situation to change but it got worser with each doctor's visit. I go to the doctor's monday and i will see what is the next step since this happened this weekend i have only spoken to er doctors. Me and my boyfriend really want to try soon to have another baby but i am so scared of miscarring again, what should i do?
miscarriage
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ClassicChic
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((((sexy c))))
I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Discuss your options and the reasons for your miscarriage with your doctor. Take care of yourself and your body. Pray.
Believe that things will work out for you.
I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Discuss your options and the reasons for your miscarriage with your doctor. Take care of yourself and your body. Pray.
Believe that things will work out for you.
sxyhairfetish
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sexy c said:
That brings tears to my eyes. I'm sorry this happened to u. I know exactly how u feel. Just pray about it and keep trying. God bless u all.
achangedlife
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I know you really want to try again but please remember that the body needs time to heal, as well as the soul and mind. You should wait at least three months before trying (or longer if your doctor says so) a uterus that is not completely healed will not be able to maintain life. If you wait then you increase your chances of carrying the next one to full term. Good luck.
cutiestyles
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I am sorry that this happened. I pray that you and your SO are comforted and keep strong in the Lord. Be patient and Please trust in what God has in store for you. Take care and God bless
crlsweetie912
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I am sorry to hear of your loss. Please take care of yourself and follow doctor's recommendations regarding trying to get pregnant again! I will keep you in my prayers!
You have my prayers and heart too.
I'm sorry about your baby; I know the pain of losing a child. I also know the joy of having another to follow. Therefore, I know that you will carry life again and bring it to full term. Please take time to heal, in spirit, soul and body.
And please 'seek' God, before the two of you try again. Let it be God's timing and God's way.
God bless you, precious one and your boyfriend as well. I admire his support and love for you.
{{{ 'Mommie Hugs' }}}
Shimmie....
I'm sorry about your baby; I know the pain of losing a child. I also know the joy of having another to follow. Therefore, I know that you will carry life again and bring it to full term. Please take time to heal, in spirit, soul and body.
And please 'seek' God, before the two of you try again. Let it be God's timing and God's way.
God bless you, precious one and your boyfriend as well. I admire his support and love for you.
{{{ 'Mommie Hugs' }}}
Shimmie....
thank u ladies so much i feel comfort now i will let u know what the doctor says about why the miscarriage happened and when i can start trying again, the saddest part is that i saw the sac come out that really crushed me. I put it in a zip lock bag i dont have the strength to throw it away, its my baby. thanks for the prayers i really need them. The baby was not planned but we both stepped up to the responsibility of raising a child, we even got clothes and a my first baby book. i cant go in the spare room it has the clothes and book in there, i put the ziplock bag with the sac in the bathroom closet i cant even open the door to get a washtowel i go into another closet, its hard i want my baby
. I was only seven weeks but i had a bond already. i miss my baby. thanks ladies this is a hard one for me
. I was only seven weeks but i had a bond already. i miss my baby. thanks ladies this is a hard one for me
sexy c said:thank u ladies so much i feel comfort now i will let u know what the doctor says about why the miscarriage happened and when i can start trying again, the saddest part is that i saw the sac come out that really crushed me. I put it in a zip lock bag i dont have the strength to throw it away, its my baby. thanks for the prayers i really need them. The baby was not planned but we both stepped up to the responsibility of raising a child, we even got clothes and a my first baby book. i cant go in the spare room it has the clothes and book in there, i put the ziplock bag with the sac in the bathroom closet i cant even open the door to get a washtowel i go into another closet, its hard i want my baby
Oh Sweet Loving Child of God: Please see yourself being loved and held so tender and lovingly in our arms. We embrace you, precious sister. Oh little one, we embrace you and love you with all of our hearts.
As hard as it is, you will heal; your broken heart will heal. And these are more than just words.
Dearest one, wrap your 'baby sac' in one of the blankets and release it to God. Let this be the way of releasing your baby into the arms of God. Don't try to do this alone. Wait for your boyfriend to help you. But you have to release this and allow your healing to take place.
I'm sitting at my desk crying. My heart is so full for you. If it helps, PM me. Please precious one, allow yourself to complete the grieving process. It hurts, I know. As I shared earlier, I lost a baby too; he was much older and a joy in our lives. He died on Sunday, August 1, 1971 at 3 1/2 months old. He was my joy...my baby boy. So I can feel your hurt.
Release your baby to God's loving arms. God is waiting tenderly for you to do so. God will take good care of your little baby...I promise you, angel. He will. He's taking good care of my baby boy...right now as I speak.
Fully developed you will see your baby again, when Jesus comes, just as I will see my baby again. Let's do this together...release your baby to God. Take the baby sac and wrap it in a little blanket, take it to the doctor's office. It will be okay...
With all my love, holding you in my heart..."Shimmie..."
