I went on an out-of-town professional workshop recently. Three of my colleagues and I were having a conversation about relationships on the way back from the workshop. One of the statements that the man in the group stated was that black men KNOW that they have their choice of women because ambitious, whether college-educated or not, decent-looking black women are more numerous then men. Now, I know the statistics, but I am meeting more men who have this "I'm a catch-you're one of a million" mentaility and will actually say it even in casual conversations (Three of us partipating in the conversation met in high school, and two of my colleagues are married and/or in a committed relationship). What has been your experience with this? For people who are in committed relationships and/or marriages, how did you avoid letting that affect you?
To me, it's one thing to read articles or anonymous posts about this, but it is something else to hear men admit it w/ smirks on their faces.
To me, it's one thing to read articles or anonymous posts about this, but it is something else to hear men admit it w/ smirks on their faces.
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