I agree, but in her books, she defines a *****. Actually, the woman she describes IS NOT A ***** at all. She is someone who is confident and believes in herself and does not tolerate a man who disrepects her.
And truthfully, I would not characterize the woman she describes as a feminist either (at least not the way women are today). She is more of an old fashioned girl, with a "new school twist." She advocates making men wait for sex, and making men act like gentlemen (taking you out, holding doors, etc.). A lot of the stuff in her books is what your grandmother or mother told you (or should have). At least that's what I got from it!
I voted yes, b/c based on the books, I definitely think men like women who "challenge" them. I am naturally a very nice person, but I cannot be this way in relationships. If I am too sweet, I get walked all over. So, I know not to give too much too soon (and thankfully, I've always known this)!