How this can affect the female:
Remoteness
Male feels sex is disgusting
Male prefers prostitutes, since sex is so "nasty"
Male withholds or avoid sex
"Zoning out" during sex
Push others away to avoid intimacy
Partner feels "Lonely" and "rejected"
There is an article in the current O magazine on this topic. It also talks about the recovery process, and how many relationships don't survive, but some can become stronger.
With one statistic being that 1 in 6 boys will be the victim of sexual abuse (and knowing how underreported those stats are for women) this is something many of us may deal with at some point.
It was very sad to read the stories, but the article also included things to look for in relationships and ways that couples have overcome what can be a huge roadblock to intimacy, considering how men are not always encouraged to express their emotions.
It's good to get this out in the open, just so we ladies can be helpful, as we would want our partner to be helpful if the shoe were on the other foot.
The entire article (it's long) is available online: http://www.oprah.com/article/relationships/200810_omag_sexual_abuse/1
What are your thoughts?
http://www.malesurvivor.org/default.html
Remoteness
Male feels sex is disgusting
Male prefers prostitutes, since sex is so "nasty"
Male withholds or avoid sex
"Zoning out" during sex
Push others away to avoid intimacy
Partner feels "Lonely" and "rejected"
There is an article in the current O magazine on this topic. It also talks about the recovery process, and how many relationships don't survive, but some can become stronger.
With one statistic being that 1 in 6 boys will be the victim of sexual abuse (and knowing how underreported those stats are for women) this is something many of us may deal with at some point.
It was very sad to read the stories, but the article also included things to look for in relationships and ways that couples have overcome what can be a huge roadblock to intimacy, considering how men are not always encouraged to express their emotions.
It's good to get this out in the open, just so we ladies can be helpful, as we would want our partner to be helpful if the shoe were on the other foot.
The entire article (it's long) is available online: http://www.oprah.com/article/relationships/200810_omag_sexual_abuse/1
What are your thoughts?
http://www.malesurvivor.org/default.html
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