Loooooong term transitioners, (1 year+) can you fill out this form for me please? I'm a little over 4 months post, BSL and just want to cut away my relaxed hair little by little (too chicken for the BC)
Starting Length: MBL
Weeks/Months into Transiton before BC: 2 years and 10 months
Products that made a difference: Coconut Oil, Leave In Conditioner (Giovanni Direct is great and so are some of the products by Garnier Fructis)
Techniques that made the difference: When I was completely relaxed, I rollerset on a weekly basis. When I decided to transition, I continued to rollerset for as long as I could. Even several months into my transition, I would rollerset and flat iron the new growth. For a lot of people, braidouts helped them through the process but they were not my friend because the NG that grew in was way too frizzy to blend in with my relaxed hair. Bunning was a Godsend. I would also go to the salon every 2-3 months to get rid of the relaxed ends gradually so I wouldn't really miss the length that much. (and also to maintain the convenience of being able to bun) The most I ever got cut off at one time (my biggest "big chop") was about 6 inches at one time which was toward the end of the transition.
Any other advice for me?: When you think about throwing in the towel, remember your reason for transitioning. Make sure to stay on top of your deep conditioning and also be very gentle to your hair when detangling (in the shower). Believe it or not, I didn't properly learn the correct way to detangle my hair until I started transitioning. When I was relaxed, detangling my hair was a nightmare for me!
Let me know if you have further questions. There is a wealth of knowledge here on the board so hopefully some of the other ladies will chime in to answer.
BB
Thank you