Long hair ladies, can I live vicariously through you?

[SmilingElephant]

Having long hair as a woman makes us these Exotic Creatures from the Other Side of the 4th Dimension...or something like that(i made that up).

Ppl jus do NOT want to believe that we can grow our hair...and when we do...they cannot believe its ours.

 

[BostonMaria]

Not lame!

I tend to do this alot....when i'm irritated by another female....lol

I'm mentally thinking..."yeah whatever...but my hair is still longer than yours."

Or when i get a "headache" and i have to loosen my ponytail or bun

I'm more terrible than i thought!!

OMG I've done this too!!!!!
Isn't that terrible? I then think to myself, God is going to punish me one of these days put some nair in my condish

 

[Ms. Feliz]

So you let your hair down and swang it to check her?

What did she do?

alot of gave me the stank face and drove off.

 

[SmilingElephant]

alot of gave me the stank face and drove off.

WE LOVE HATERS!!! WE LOVE HATERS!!:woohoo:

 

[I Am So Blessed]

It happened like 2 or 3 times!!! One guy just walked up to me and started out with friendly chit chat...and then he just started talkin about all his problems and what he did that day and what he gotta do to do better....stuff like that.

I jus smiled and nodded thinking

And then there was this white guy who told me all about his wife and he got all this money and this and that....

Its crazy!!!

wow, i get this all the time,

but the men just throw themselves....just last week this happend to me. one time i thought to myself "let me see where this can go" so i actually turned around to get purse, but i turned sharply so my hair could swing in his direction!! HE GOT ME DRINKS THE WHOLE NIGHT AFTER THAT...

SMOOTH TALKING AND HAIR SWINGING IS WHAT I DO!!<---about to make a song out of that.

 

[4evershika]

aww! I love this thread! You ladies are funny!

 

[SmilingElephant]

wow, i get this all the time, yall saw my thread about the white guy right...that tuned into a dance off tho lol lol

but the men just throw themselves....just last week this happend to me. one time i thought to myself "let me see where this can go" so i actually turned around to get purse, but i turned sharply so my hair could swing in his direction!! HE GOT ME DRINKS THE WHOLE NIGHT AFTER THAT...

SMOOTH TALKING AND HAIR SWINGING IS WHAT I DO!!<---about to make a song out of that.

Note to self!!!

 

[exoticmommie]

Gotta make sure this thread stays in top ten or something so the ladies who come on tomorrow can share their stories. If not I will have to bump tomorrow.

But I will definitely be doing the hair flip, when my hair is longer, to check a female.

 

[SmilingElephant]

Gotta make sure this thread stays in top ten or something so the ladies who come on tomorrow can share their stories. If not I will have to bump tomorrow.

But I will definitely be doing the hair flip, when my hair is longer, to check a female.

Girl i used to work it when my hair was APL...before LHCF...i used to go to the salon and get these curls all over the top of my head....and they were burgundy...i love color rinses...and walk through the mall like a model...you know how they step hard enough to make everything bounce?

Heads would turn HARD!!...I shoulda passed out neckbraces as i walked by!

 

[Ms. Feliz]

When I reach my goal I will have the stiffest. neck. ever.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Girl i used to work it when my hair was APL...before LHCF...i used to go to the salon and get these curls all over the top of my head....and they were burgundy...i love color rinses...and walk through the mall like a model...you know how they step hard enough to make everything bounce?

Heads would turn HARD!!...I shoulda passed out neckbraces as i walked by!

Definitly, give it and then apologize to them lol

 

[SmilingElephant]

Definitly, give it and then apologize to them lol

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA........!!!

 

[brg240]

My hair is mbl, I use my hair to cover cleavage actually. So opposite from adora XD I have been known to listen to my mp3 during class and the cord will be covered by my hair. I've also done slomo turns when my hair was straight XD Have stepped into the wind and let my hair fly around. I know they're childish but I love braided pigtails. I don't wear them out much but I did wear them in front of a couple friends once and one of the guys face lit up and he grabbed it and went 'cute'. I can't wait til the summer I'm going to the beach and going to rock wl pigtails.

I daydream about longer hair too. :/ Even though I realize it's long to most people. I never feel like I make progress. I can't wait til I am about hl. It's going to be fun. lol I have fantasies about my hair being all wavy covering my breasts. It can kinda do it now but not in the way like.

Oh I forgot I sometimes lean my head back to imagine it being a certain length.

Next time I wear my hair out I will be doing this.

 

[I Am So Blessed]

My hair is mbl, I use my hair to cover cleavage actually. So opposite from adora XD I have been known to listen to my mp3 during class and the cord will be covered by my hair. I've also done slomo turns when my hair was straight XD Have stepped into the wind and let my hair fly around. I know they're childish but I love braided pigtails. I don't wear them out much but I did wear them in front of a couple friends once and one of the guys face lit up and he grabbed it and went 'cute'. I can't wait til the summer I'm going to the beach and going to rock wl pigtails.

I daydream about longer hair too. :/ Even though I realize it's long to most people. I never feel like I make progress. I can't wait til I am about hl. It's going to be fun. lol I have fantasies about my hair being all wavy covering my breasts. It can kinda do it now but not in the way like.

Oh I forgot I sometimes lean my head back to imagine it being a certain length.

Next time I wear my hair out I will be doing this.

WL pig tails? lol nah son,<---gangsta voice) My almost WL hair pig tails come a lil past shoulder thats it.

 

[brg240]

WL pig tails? lol nah son,<---gangsta voice) My almost WL hair pig tails come a lil past shoulder thats it.

I meant when my hair reaches wl I can't wait to rock pigtails. they'll probably be like mbl, I think it's bsl or a bit longer than bsl now XD
but who knows there may be no apparent change in length since I'm transitioning.

 

[exoticmommie]

I meant when my hair reaches wl I can't wait to rock pigtails. they'll probably be like mbl, I think it's bsl or a bit longer than bsl now XD
but who knows there may be no apparent change in length since I'm transitioning.

Best believe when my hair gets longer I will be rocking some pigtails. 2 just like Pocahontas.

Or curly like this, except no heat will be used, I am an LHCFer.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBDszMyIniI

 

[I Am So Blessed]

I meant when my hair reaches wl I can't wait to rock pigtails. they'll probably be like mbl, I think it's bsl or a bit longer than bsl now XD
but who knows there may be no apparent change in length since I'm transitioning.

lol noo i wasnt talking about your hair lol i ment my shrinkage. i just figured you had no shrinkage
becuase that would be a wonderful thing if WL hair made WL pigtails.

 

[brg240]

lol noo i wasnt talking about your hair lol i ment my shrinkage. i just figured you had no shrinkage
becuase that would be a wonderful thing if WL hair made WL pigtails.

Oh I know. I meant that my hair goes from mbl to bsl in pigtails. I don't think I have much shrinkage. maybe 2"(?) I don't really pay attention. I'll have to check it out sometime

exoticmommie - I like curly pigtails too. I did two twists kinda like bantu knots so I didn't have to use heat.

 

[Adaoba2012]

Nice thread EM! I hope one day my hair can cover the cleavage in my breasts too lol but the real reason I want longer hair is for all the haters that really don't think my hair will grow..they look at me all crazy when I talk about deep conditioning and protective styling. But when I'm MBL they are gonna want all my secrets! The thing I look forward too the most is having shoulder length spiral curls or APL curly rollersets

 

[I Am So Blessed]

Oh I know. I meant that my hair goes from mbl to bsl in pigtails. I don't think I have much shrinkage. maybe 2"(?) I don't really pay attention. I'll have to check it out sometime

exoticmommie - I like curly pigtails too. I did two twists kinda like bantu knots so I didn't have to use heat.

wow, i would love to have just two inches of shrinkage, i get about 7inches of shrinkage lol danget!!!!!!!

time for bed,

 

[Filmatic]

I'm not long since my BC but when it get back I still want to do my Pantene commercial. You know where it's bouncing as you walking down the stair. Shining, swanging, bouncing. I'ma have some killer legs from all that stair walking.

 

[Nayna]

*sigh* even though my goal is WL I know I'm going to act the fool at full BSL. I'm aproaching full APL and I slapped my SO with my fro yesterday, lol. Can you imagine what I'll do at BSL/BSB. Hmph. MBL, forget it. I can't friggin wait. I straightened my hair last week and I had some old man telling me not to hurt em, lol. He must not know bout me.... lol.

 

[MiiSS kECiia]

Shut up! i Love this thread.. i can't wait til my hair is waist length =) before i cut some dead ("& i mean dead) ends people would ask me what i was mixed with... "& i think i was apl close t0 bsl... *sigh* i can't wait !!! Thanks for the boost OP

 

[teysmith]

Girl i used to work it when my hair was APL...before LHCF...i used to go to the salon and get these curls all over the top of my head....and they were burgundy...i love color rinses...and walk through the mall like a model...you know how they step hard enough to make everything bounce?

Heads would turn HARD!!...I shoulda passed out neckbraces as i walked by![/QUOTE]




GIRL YA KILLING ME OVER HERE!!!

 

[teysmith]

^^^^dont know what happened there...lol ^^^^^

 

[Aspire]

What a really nice thread. . . . .

Inspirational . . . and yet . . . I want to curl up in a ball and cry. Oh well, I guess I will subscribe and come back when I am not PMSing, depressed, and suffering from insomnia; because at 3:40 AM, I wanna find all you chicas and :hardslap: and Course, I wouldn't touch the hair. :wink2:


But I mean that with serious LHCF and . Kudos to EM for starting the thread, and congrats to the ladies whos hard hair work is paying off.

 

[BlackMasterPiece]

I was the girl with the tightly coily coarse type 4 hair that everyone had a comment to make about, the skinny late bloomer, they called my hair ugly, nappy and told me to "resolve it" and as a little girl........ I believed them.

Eventually I became a young lady that came into her own, I looked at my childhood massive fro and promised myself I would let my hair be what it is and see if I can get that length again.

Well I got it and I surpassed it.

I'm a curvaceous size 2 in dresses, I have a music video booty and MBL hair well on its way to WL.........you can't tell me nuthin at this point

When the wind blows my hair just cascades with each gust and its an amazing feeling sometimes I see guys just staring at the effect as I approach and its sooo empowering.

Sometimes I can't believe my progress and it makes me sooooo happy I just wanna share my tools and techniques with every sista I encounter interested in it.

I swing my hair out of my way allllllll the time its still gets me excited sometimes.

To the lady that said sometimes when theres a chick she doesn't like or a hater she'll swing her hair like oh well I still got longer hair.....omg that is the TRUTH I do the SAME thing!!

I *love* how amazed brotha's are with my hair and my progress and how within the 1st to 2nd date after they've asked if its all mine and I invite them to touch they can't get over it and run their hands thru my hair routinely from that point on. I've noticed men of other races find me to be more "exotic" looking being that I'm a Black girl with unusually long hair so that keeps things interesting and fun.

I recently did a length check and I couldn't believe how close I'm getting to WL....I still keep my avatar from 2 months ago up because I'm still in the inbetween phase....I dont have very much hair anorexia I know my hair is long ....its really something I give thanks for every day....it makes me smile.

I changed into my pajamas tonight and my hair was just swinging and hanging down my back and for a moment I was just swinging my hair from side to side because it was soooo relaxing to feel hair all down your back...I'm just very grateful....its been an awesome fullfilling journey and I enjoy every step of the way

 

[PearlyCurly]

Oh i am jealous of all you ladies, and your hair stories

I just cant wait till i can reach behind my back and touch my hair, i can almost do it now(when straighten) but i dont want to dislocate my arm
And i just cannot wait till i can use my hair as a shirt, oh and until i can put my hair into a ponytail w/o the aid of water or gel

And last but not least, i just CAN NOT wait until someone ask me "Why do you wear your hair in a bun all the time" Then i can pimp slap them with my WL hair and they will never question my bun again:alcoholic

 

[taj]

:wow:I:heart2:this thread, it's hilarious! Ladies


:waytogo: You deserve because you've worked so

hard to achieve your goals & maintain them.


I'm full bsb and I can't wait until I'm wl!! I love all of my haters (lol) and the compliments that I receive (especially from men) are priceless. The men and I still think of my hair as being short.

 

[mariofmagdal]

good thread... I can't wait till I have ultimately hip length hair!

I imagine my hair being in a bun and all of a sudden needing to "redo" my bun. I let my hair down, swing it around and "re-adjust" my ponytail holder.
I'm so lame!

Funny, this happens to me when I have product build up. This is when I know it's time to wash, hair won't stay bunned. Weird but true.

Sorry I am such a bore with my hair, no real stories to share, it's bunned all the time. I recently started wearing a banded ponytail, compliments of my 6 yo daughter, she does them for me. When driving in the car, I forget that's my hair behind me.

This is a great thread, I am enjoying all the stories.