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Long hair ladies, can I live vicariously through you?

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:grin: I can relate to is this my hair? all my wigs was around BSL. when i wear my hair no one really said anything I assumed they didn't know.
when I wear my hair down It feel strange, for a while...& it tangle at the nape.
I was holding my head like I would a wig...
I do not touch or toss my hair, cause haters hate that.

My Mom ask why r u letting your hair grow out? you don't do anything but wear it in a ball.:lol: I said Mom you use to call it a rabbit's tail.
frienemies will ask you that too, have u noticed?
beautician( if u go) will say you got the face for short hair..... (I fell for that once.) I have short wigs now:spinning:...
8 times out of 10.
beauticians don't wanna deal w a lot of hair,,,,, it's too time consuming:yep:
fireneimies say catty things like "you sure spend a long time on your hair"! w their noses turned up.... knowing they have a Train Station full of tracks w added hair in them that took hours.!!!:fan::smirk::poke:

I thought I was the only person who thought like that. I don't think its a trap. Many women have cute faces for short cuts.:yep:
 
Oh! I have a story!

I cut my hair back to APL last month, but it looks so much better and I'm on track to get back to BSL by December. N E Way.....

I arrived at work as usual one morning and since my hair was in a poofy braidout, I had to do a "dramatic" hair flip before putting my purse and bag on my shoulder.

Well, I have perfected my hair flip. I lean my head forward slightly so that a fair amount of hair falls forward. In one motion, I flip my head and hair at the same time. Then I do a mini-flip from the back of my neck to make sure all the hair is out of the way.

I caught a coworker staring at my little morning ritual and he quickly looked away when I looked at him! :giggle:

You can't tell me nuthin'! I used to be shy about bring attention to my hair, but now.....shiiiiiiiddddd.

Wait 'til I get to TBL.......
 
Oh! I have a story!

I cut my hair back to APL last month, but it looks so much better and I'm on track to get back to BSL by December. N E Way.....

I arrived at work as usual one morning and since my hair was in a poofy braidout, I had to do a "dramatic" hair flip before putting my purse and bag on my shoulder.

Well, I have perfected my hair flip. I lean my head forward slightly so that a fair amount of hair falls forward. In one motion, I flip my head and hair at the same time. Then I do a mini-flip from the back of my neck to make sure all the hair is out of the way.

I caught a coworker staring at my little morning ritual and he quickly looked away when I looked at him! :giggle:

You can't tell me nuthin'! I used to be shy about bring attention to my hair, but now.....shiiiiiiiddddd.

Wait 'til I get to TBL.......


:lachen:You better work it girl!!!
 
I hope yall are still around when I make it to the long hair crew so I can share my stories too! I love reading these tidbits knowing one day that will be me!

sunnieb

Girl, I feel like I was right there with you! Awesome visualization! LOL!
 
Babygrowth - I'll be right here waiting on your stories! :yep:

Tonight I put my hair in a walk-around-the-house bun.

I made a make-shift pony kinda in the center of my head and started twirling to make the bun. Well, I'm still not used to all this hair because I flopped the ends in my eyes! :giggle:
 
Oh! I have a story!

I cut my hair back to APL last month, but it looks so much better and I'm on track to get back to BSL by December. N E Way.....

I arrived at work as usual one morning and since my hair was in a poofy braidout, I had to do a "dramatic" hair flip before putting my purse and bag on my shoulder.

Well, I have perfected my hair flip. I lean my head forward slightly so that a fair amount of hair falls forward. In one motion, I flip my head and hair at the same time. Then I do a mini-flip from the back of my neck to make sure all the hair is out of the way.

I caught a coworker staring at my little morning ritual and he quickly looked away when I looked at him! :giggle:

You can't tell me nuthin'! I used to be shy about bring attention to my hair, but now.....shiiiiiiiddddd.

Wait 'til I get to TBL.......
ok i'mma need a youtube tutorial on that hair flip technique
 
:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:

You are so wrong for this comment!

they do! :lachen: Chooo Chooo!

their boyfriends or husbands know not to touch their hair!!!

they will get track burn!!!

I caught a coworker staring at my little morning ritual and he quickly looked away when I looked at him! :giggle:

sunni, he may have wanted to root ya.
ya know they don't think we can grow hair.... just buy it....
I do both.....:grin:
 
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I had a little incident 2 days ago at work.

One of my managers asked me what i did to my hair bc "its so long!" I told him i just straightened it.

He was like "i never knew it was that l long! You have a lot of hair! It looks really good!"

I explained to him how my hair is long when straightened but curls allll the way up to my neck.

Other women were te telling me i need to go back curly bc my edges are starting to frizz and my hair is doing what it wants:lol: *side eye*

Sent from my N860 using LHCF
 
So I'm at the gas station paying for gas and this man comes behind me and I hear him sniff - like maybe he had a cold or something. Then says real loud, "BEAUTIFUL HAIR LADY". So I turn and say thank you and at that point realized he was standing uncomfortably close to me. So I quickly turn back around and then I hear him sniff again but a longer sniff and he goes, "WHOA IS THAT ALL YOUR HAIR LIL LADY?" I turn around and said yes and smiled. So then he goes sniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiff (but now I feel his face pressing up against the back of my head) and say "MAN AND IT SMELLS SOOOOOOO GOOD TOO!" :lachen:
 
I think you should bun for eternity! Wth kinda creeper thinks he can do that?!?! And wash your hair too. Make sure all his nose juice is off your ish.
 
So I'm at the gas station paying for gas and this man comes behind me and I hear him sniff - like maybe he had a cold or something. Then says real loud, "BEAUTIFUL HAIR LADY". So I turn and say thank you and at that point realized he was standing uncomfortably close to me. So I quickly turn back around and then I hear him sniff again but a longer sniff and he goes, "WHOA IS THAT ALL YOUR HAIR LIL LADY?" I turn around and said yes and smiled. So then he goes sniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiff (but now I feel his face pressing up against the back of my head) and say "MAN AND IT SMELLS SOOOOOOO GOOD TOO!" :lachen:

Oh NO!!!:blush::nono::nono::nono::nono: Girl please be careful! Men like that creep me ALL the way out and i always threaten to put them 6 feet under. It's too many bad things happening to women these days.
 
OK - so my goal is BSL and I already have a big "coming out " celebration in mind. But I think I just added somethng to the celebration.

I rollerskate and so do 2 ex SO's who have each seen my hair once. So I think I will show them how I roll :look: in 2014 with BSL hair. One of my favorite skates is "skating backwards - couples":spinning: - (you kno' where the ladies lay there heads back on the men's shoulders and just take a ride). :angel: Of course I plan on skating backwards with each of them - with hair hanging down. It would be selfish of me not to let the gentlemen get a whiff of the long haired brown shuga' :lick: - dontcha' think?:lol:

inspired by @sunnieb "hair flip ritual" :grin:
 
OK - so my goal is BSL and I already have a big "coming out " celebration in mind. But I think I just added somethng to the celebration.

I rollerskate and so do 2 ex SO's who have each seen my hair once. So I think I will show them how I roll :look: in 2014 with BSL hair. One of my favorite skates is "skating backwards - couples":spinning: - (you kno' where the ladies lay there heads back on the men's shoulders and just take a ride). :angel: Of course I plan on skating backwards with each of them - with hair hanging down. It would be selfish of me not to let the gentlemen get a whiff of the long haired brown shuga' :lick: - dontcha' think?:lol:

inspired by @sunnieb "hair flip ritual" :grin:

.....................................................
 
I'm going to live vicariously through dd. I'm taking a break from taking from braids loose, detangling, and rebraiding. Her longest layers touch the waistband of her pants.
 
So I'm at the gas station paying for gas and this man comes behind me and I hear him sniff - like maybe he had a cold or something. Then says real loud, "BEAUTIFUL HAIR LADY". So I turn and say thank you and at that point realized he was standing uncomfortably close to me. So I quickly turn back around and then I hear him sniff again but a longer sniff and he goes, "WHOA IS THAT ALL YOUR HAIR LIL LADY?" I turn around and said yes and smiled. So then he goes sniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiff (but now I feel his face pressing up against the back of my head) and say "MAN AND IT SMELLS SOOOOOOO GOOD TOO!" :lachen:

Ahmm...what you use in your head? For real, though...:yep:
 
Chicoro you cannot just come in this thread and leave without telling us a few stories.

Chicoro I know you got some stories with that beautiful unicorn hair of yours... Yes unicorn

Okay...lemme see...ahm...I am in France and was staying in a hostel. A large group of men from a wedding party stayed overnight. They can't speak a lick of English and my French consists of "bonjour". The next morning, I regretfully make eye contact with one of them and smiled because HE was staring at ME. The hair was in a bun. Big mistake here- the smile not the hair style. Direct eye contact and a smile can mean open invitation [for sex]. Anyway, I sit down to look at LHCF on my IPAD and the guy comes over and asks to "see" my IPAD. Finally, after sitting all up on me and tapping the keys like he is a gorilla and us drawing pictures to communicate 'cause he doesn't speak English and I don't speak French, he gets up and leaves. I get up after all the traffic is gone and go and do my hair in the bathroom. The same guy peeks in to the bathroom (these are mixed bathrooms, rooms etc) and comes in and brushes his teeth next to me. I use my Kcutter comb to comb through my pony. My hair is very long so I have to pull it far away from my body in order for me to comb it from top to tip . He STOPS brushing his teeth and turns and stares at me. After being stared at for a good 2 minutes I turn and look like, "Do you mind?" He jumps and apologizes in French and says, "Pardon." He then says, "You are a very beautiful girl" IN PERFECT ENGLISH. It's funny how a man can't conjugate an English verb, but they ALWAYS know how to tell a woman she is beautiful in her language! Then he brings his face close to mine. I had my K-cutter in 'stab' mode. He goes,"In France we kiss." Then he places his cheek next to mine and I turn the other one and then he kisses me with his lips on my other cheek. It happened too fast to stab or argue. When I came out the bathroom everyone was gone. Went to my room to pack up and was sitting on the floor. Here he comes again. When he peeked in he made a sound and gesture like, "There she is!" He came straight over to me, extended his arms and reached for me and lifted me up. He said, "I go. I kiss you."We get a repeat of what happened in the bathroom. And YES, he was FINE. He was tall, blonde and blue-eyed. He was a roofer/construction worker from Switzerland and had a beautiful body, too.
 
Chicoro said:
Okay...lemme see...ahm...I am in France and was staying in a hostel. A large group of men from a wedding party stayed overnight. They can't speak a lick of English and my French consists of "bonjour". The next morning, I regretfully make eye contact with one of them and smiled because HE was staring at ME. The hair was in a bun. Big mistake here- the smile not the hair style. Direct eye contact and a smile can mean open invitation [for sex]. Anyway, I sit down to look at LHCF on my IPAD and the guy comes over and asks to "see" my IPAD. Finally, after sitting all up on me and tapping the keys like he is a gorilla and us drawing pictures to communicate 'cause he doesn't speak English and I don't speak French, he gets up and leaves. I get up after all the traffic is gone and go and do my hair in the bathroom. The same guy peeks in to the bathroom (these are mixed bathrooms, rooms etc) and comes in and brushes his teeth next to me. I use my Kcutter comb to comb through my pony. My hair is very long so I have to pull it far away from my body in order for me to comb it from top to tip . He STOPS brushing his teeth and turns and stares at me. After being stared at for a good 2 minutes I turn and look like, "Do you mind?" He jumps and apologizes in French and says, "Pardon." He then says, "You are a very beautiful girl" IN PERFECT ENGLISH. It's funny how a man can't conjugate an English verb, but they ALWAYS know how to tell a woman she is beautiful in her language! Then he brings his face close to mine. I had my K-cutter in 'stab' mode. He goes,"In France we kiss." Then he places his cheek next to mine and I turn the other one and then he kisses me with his lips on my other cheek. It happened too fast to stab or argue. When I came out the bathroom everyone was gone. Went to my room to pack up and was sitting on the floor. Here he comes again. When he peeked in he made a sound and gesture like, "There she is!" He came straight over to me, extended his arms and reached for me and lifted me up. He said, "I go. I kiss you."We get a repeat of what happened in the bathroom. And YES, he was FINE. He was tall, blonde and blue-eyed. He was a roofer/construction worker from Switzerland and had a beautiful body, too.

fun story! :-)
where were you in france? if you were in Paris we must have been very close to eachother :i work just in front of the eiffel tower. 1 min from it. (you must have visited it if you never have)? :-)
 
Okay...lemme see...ahm...I am in France and was staying in a hostel. A large group of men from a wedding party stayed overnight. They can't speak a lick of English and my French consists of "bonjour". The next morning, I regretfully make eye contact with one of them and smiled because HE was staring at ME. The hair was in a bun. Big mistake here- the smile not the hair style. Direct eye contact and a smile can mean open invitation [for sex]. Anyway, I sit down to look at LHCF on my IPAD and the guy comes over and asks to "see" my IPAD. Finally, after sitting all up on me and tapping the keys like he is a gorilla and us drawing pictures to communicate 'cause he doesn't speak English and I don't speak French, he gets up and leaves. I get up after all the traffic is gone and go and do my hair in the bathroom. The same guy peeks in to the bathroom (these are mixed bathrooms, rooms etc) and comes in and brushes his teeth next to me. I use my Kcutter comb to comb through my pony. My hair is very long so I have to pull it far away from my body in order for me to comb it from top to tip . He STOPS brushing his teeth and turns and stares at me. After being stared at for a good 2 minutes I turn and look like, "Do you mind?" He jumps and apologizes in French and says, "Pardon." He then says, "You are a very beautiful girl" IN PERFECT ENGLISH. It's funny how a man can't conjugate an English verb, but they ALWAYS know how to tell a woman she is beautiful in her language! Then he brings his face close to mine. I had my K-cutter in 'stab' mode. He goes,"In France we kiss." Then he places his cheek next to mine and I turn the other one and then he kisses me with his lips on my other cheek. It happened too fast to stab or argue. When I came out the bathroom everyone was gone. Went to my room to pack up and was sitting on the floor. Here he comes again. When he peeked in he made a sound and gesture like, "There she is!" He came straight over to me, extended his arms and reached for me and lifted me up. He said, "I go. I kiss you."We get a repeat of what happened in the bathroom. And YES, he was FINE. He was tall, blonde and blue-eyed. He was a roofer/construction worker from Switzerland and had a beautiful body, too.

Oh, how romantic! Cmon, hair, GROW GROW GROW :lachen:
 
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