Woo hoo replies :superbanana:
Cocoaluv- Good suggestions, thanks. Both of us are so busy with work, etc. that we don't do e-mail but we do talk/text twice a day which is good. You're right, communication is important... we're trying to make it work.
Hil84figer- Thanks for those links. I am going to look through those for inspiration
Mzlady- Was 2-3 months too long? I know that I'd like to see him every month if I could but with work and all... you know how that goes.
firecracker-
I will be forwarding jobs like a mug.
Our plan? The man is from Philly and hates it as much as I do... he has a big family and I know he will miss them but like he says, he is a grown man and grown men need to be selfish sometimes.
It's only been 3 weeks, I'm pathetic
His goal was to relocate by December but companies are looking at their bottom lines at the end of the yr and not really hiring. So Feb-March? I really don't want to shack up and I know this is the best way... As for a plan, I know that he is excited to move to Texas but wants to have a good job so he's applying and interviewing, etc. The plan is just to see each other as often as possible (I'll visit after Thanksgiving, he will visit me and my family at Christmas, etc.) so that we don't start acting up.
The ring? See why you had to call me out on the ring?
I was a little demanding when I mentioned what I liked
but... reality hit me and we're good now. I think.