Libido Enhancers

Sade'

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Based on some of the threads about lack of interest in sex etc. Have you ladies or would any of you ladies consider taking any of these pills or using these libido enhancing gels they have on the market?? If any of you have done so what were your results?
 
I take Maca Root and it had been a god-send for real.

My sex drive was totally down bc of bc and after I had my DD---even worse.

My DD and i thought nothin would work (tried all types of stuff) but I started maca and even he saw a diff.

I started w/ like 1-2 pills a day (500mg) and that didn't do anything so I upped if after reading someones post about their increase. So I did 1500 and that was the magic number for me.

Awesome product
 
LOL@ DivaDiva...I was thinking about Women's Extenze since the ingredients are All Natural and it has Folic Acid!!

(He want a lady in the streets & a freek in the bed)
 
I wish I could help, but I'm looking for a thing or two as well. And Women's Extenze did perk my ears when I saw the commercial.

Mind you I think my libido is good, but I wouldn't mind, "Getting that old spontanity back....and just having a lot more fun"!! LOL!! As you can see I've seen and heard way too many Extenze commercials.
 
I wish I could help, but I'm looking for a thing or two as well. And Women's Extenze did perk my ears when I saw the commercial.

Mind you I think my libido is good, but I wouldn't mind, "Getting that old spontanity back....and just having a lot more fun"!! LOL!! As you can see I've seen and heard way too many Extenze commercials.

LOL!! U do sound like the commercial! I think I am gonna see what's up with one these items that's out here. I am the research queen so I will def be reading up on side effect and other reviews. I'll let u guys know. :lick:
 
I would certainly be interested in one, but i dont believe anything out there are enhancers, but just placebo effect. after 8+ years of BC.... i wouldnt mind a little pep. The only thing that works for me is the saying 'use it or loose it". basically if i'm "coloring" frequently then i desire it...but when i get busy and no time to color...it is not missed that much...
 
Checking in for Maca. I'm not taking it for this purpose, but I seem to be enjoying this benefit....as if I needed that. :rolleyes:

There are no side effects to maca. At least none that I've experienced. The only thing I could say is to take half of the recommended dosage for the first 2-3 days you take it to allow your body to adjust to it.
 
Stop taking BC pills! I stopped taking them years ago and now I cannot get enough! Seriously! Maybe 3 months after I let the pill go my libido shot up! I probably think about sex twice every 5 minutes!:blush: Shoot! Even when we're out in public, if no one is looking in our direction, I'm always up for a sneak attack! What's more exciting than giving a good BJ in the car on the way home from dinner? :lick: We can barely get the garage door down before we're ripping eachothers clothes off!

Use other methods of birth control and let those pills go! You'll thank me!
 
^^ So true Anita!! I stopped with BCP's and I got my groove back. That's the reason I don't take them. Just taking them alone will prevent pregnancy because you won't want to have sex!! I completely agree!!
 
I think the only libido enhancer I need is to finally drop this newleywed 15. I totally haven't been "in the mood" as of late...which could be because I weight myself every morning. DH LOVES the weight but I can't stand it. I need to "catch" an eating disorder. LOL
 
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I think the only libido enhancer I need is to finally drop this newleywed 15. I totally haven't been "in the mood" as of late...which could be because I weight myself every morning. DH LOVES the weight but I can't stand it. I need top "catch" an eating disorder. LOL

LOL, OK LBoogie we have to hang out. You sound like me. But I gained 10 lbs this year and DH LOVES it. Which is great, but I can't fit into my size 4 clothes (particularly jeans) any more. I don't want to buy all new clothes, but I have to admit I do love my new found curves and DH's hand all over me!! :look: LOL, he can't keep his hands off!!! Embrace the weight!!
 
LOL, OK LBoogie we have to hang out. You sound like me. But I gained 10 lbs this year and DH LOVES it. Which is great, but I can't fit into my size 4 clothes (particularly jeans) any more. I don't want to buy all new clothes, but I have to admit I do love my new found curves and DH's hand all over me!! :look: LOL, he can't keep his hands off!!! Embrace the weight!!

We are so ><, AT the 10lb mark, I was complaining. Joined Results gym and everything. DH was flipping about "you know how much work I put in to put that on you?!" NOW, my size 4's are STILL in the closet, I gave up on the 2's and took all of them to goodwill. But I'm making it my business to get OUT of the 6's. My goal is to fit into my "birthday suit" that DH bought me for my birthday the year before last which is a size 4 Tahari that was a little saggy in the booty that I now can't button. :look:

I refuse to invest in a new wardrobe, everytime I try something on in my closet that I can't fit, I get so mad that I eat a cookie! :lachen:

I need to get it together...STAT. Besides, we can't make a baby, if I feel like I'm too fat to color.
 
^^ So true Anita!! I stopped with BCP's and I got my groove back. That's the reason I don't take them. Just taking them alone will prevent pregnancy because you won't want to have sex!! I completely agree!!

This is exactly why I stopped taking BCP. I was like...What's the point if I never want to have sex! It's a catch 22!
 
This is exactly why I stopped taking BCP. I was like...What's the point if I never want to have sex! It's a catch 22!

I did. Nothing! I was off for several years.

When I got back on I got a boost . . . but not enough.

I think I am like some of the ladies here - dropping some pounds (and kicking this illness) might help more than anything.
 
We are so ><, AT the 10lb mark, I was complaining. Joined Results gym and everything. DH was flipping about "you know how much work I put in to put that on you?!" NOW, my size 4's are STILL in the closet, I gave up on the 2's and took all of them to goodwill. But I'm making it my business to get OUT of the 6's. My goal is to fit into my "birthday suit" that DH bought me for my birthday the year before last which is a size 4 Tahari that was a little saggy in the booty that I now can't button. :look:

I refuse to invest in a new wardrobe, everytime I try something on in my closet that I can't fit, I get so mad that I eat a cookie! :lachen:

I need to get it together...STAT. Besides, we can't make a baby, if I feel like I'm too fat to color.

LOL, stop trying to be ME!!!! LOL!!! :lachen::lachen::lachen: DH doesn't mind taking me out to eat and getting me whatever I want so I can stay this size. He's evil!!! But I feel you. I'm like right between a 4 and 6, like some clothes I can still wear a 4, others not so much. He likes me to be in jeans that are waaaaaay too tight, than for me to put on ones that fit and are comfortable. He calls the size 6 jeans my "grandma jeans" and told me to burn them. But as you know you gotta keep several size clothes for when you gain and lose weight. He genuinely is confused when I say things like "I need to lose weight", and he just thinks women are crazy about their body images. He's like, "I don't think you all see what we (men) see". I see his point, but it's also what you're comfortable with too, you know?

But I do like my little 4 shape as it was more toned and sleek. I just wish I could have the boobs and butt that I have now and be as toned as I was when I was a 4. Y'all couldn't tell me nothin!!!

As for the baby thing, we talked about that last night and I can't wait for us to start TTC!!! But I think you were on to something. If and when you're happy with your weight and how you look naked, the sexiness will come through and you'll want to get it poppin all the time. Since the hubby loves my little shape, I've learned to see the good in it and I flaunt it now. I give him a little tease ALL THE TIME!!!

And I can't lie, since talking about sex on here with you all, sex has been on my mind all the time!!! I just try to surround myself with sex, either on here, thinking naughty thoughts, wearing something sexy, just anything relating to that and it just seeps through my pores!! LOL!!! Maybe that in addition to a libido enhancer will work hella wonders for us ladies. I know I've been coloring just about every day, so I can't wait to see what some enhancing will do!!

LOL, before you know it there won't be anyone on LHCF!! You'll just hear crickets all up in here, with just the pregnancy thread full as all get out!!!
 
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This is exactly why I stopped taking BCP. I was like...What's the point if I never want to have sex! It's a catch 22!
That's why it's called birth CONTROL. Anything to contribute to the prevention of giving birth. And that includes preventing the urge to have sex. :lol:
 
DivaDiva and LBoogie y'all are HILARIOUS!!! I feel you on the weight thing. I stay b/t 4-6. I was not meant to be thick, I prefer long and lean. AnitaTheLengths is FUNNY!!!! U taking me back to college days girl! LOLOL Nothing like spontaneity!!!!
 
LOL, stop trying to be ME!!!! LOL!!! :lachen::lachen::lachen: DH doesn't mind taking me out to eat and getting me whatever I want so I can stay this size. He's evil!!! But I feel you. I'm like right between a 4 and 6, like some clothes I can still wear a 4, others not so much. He likes me to be in jeans that are waaaaaay too tight, than for me to put on ones that fit and are comfortable. He calls the size 6 jeans my "grandma jeans" and told me to burn them. But as you know you gotta keep several size clothes for when you gain and lose weight. He genuinely is confused when I say things like "I need to lose weight", and he just thinks women are crazy about their body images. He's like, "I don't think you all see what we (men) see". I see his point, but it's also what you're comfortable with too, you know?

But I do like my little 4 shape as it was more toned and sleek. I just wish I could have the boobs and butt that I have now and be as toned as I was when I was a 4. Y'all couldn't tell me nothin!!!


As for the baby thing, we talked about that last night and I can't wait for us to start TTC!!! But I think you were on to something. If and when you're happy with your weight and how you look naked, the sexiness will come through and you'll want to get it poppin all the time. Since the hubby loves my little shape, I've learned to see the good in it and I flaunt it now. I give him a little tease ALL THE TIME!!!

And I can't lie, since talking about sex on here with you all, sex has been on my mind all the time!!! I just try to surround myself with sex, either on here, thinking naughty thoughts, wearing something sexy, just anything relating to that and it just seeps through my pores!! LOL!!! Maybe that in addition to a libido enhancer will work hella wonders for us ladies. I know I've been coloring just about every day, so I can't wait to see what some enhancing will do!!

LOL, before you know it there won't be anyone on LHCF!! You'll just hear crickets all up in here, with just the pregnancy thread full as all get out!!!


LMBO!

Shoot, I'm NOT trying to be you...I wanna be the old me! LOL

I get home and this fool is up there grilling up meat, or wanting to go to the most wonderful restaurants or asking me to make chicken & dumplings. Just straight sabatoge.

To the bolded: I don't mind the butt...It's something new (even my mama noticed it and gave it a slap :wallbash:). These 34DD....No fun! and they appeared OVERNIGHT I swear! I went from a 34C to a 34DD, I know for sure because I was trying to wear a favorite tight sweater of mine (we were going out) and I pulled out my favorite bra (which I just happened to wear two days prior - YES, I washed it) and I was spilling all out of the sides...I went and tried on EVERY bra I had and none of them fit right. Ran to the mall the next day to get fitted and this broad gon' tell me... "you're a 34, but you're not a C." So I'm like "what am I?" She said "DD," I said "Hell nawl Im not." and I stomped my arse out of Vickies Secret. Went on down to Neimans and got the same unfortuane news. Texted my mom and BFF and they both thought it was hilarious.

I can only be thankful that I'm 5'8 so I don't look as bad as I feel. But once this weight is off, I'm hoping I'll at least think about jumping a bone.

DH loves it all, but I'm not used to things moving and or shifting when I walk.

I need some pill that will make me drop the pounds and want to color. Two birds, one stone = stork getting knocked out of tree!

Maybe I can luck up and catch that swine flu....lol

Then again, my BF just got over it and said she only lost 2lbs! I told her that was a serious waste of an infectious disease.
 
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And I can't lie, since talking about sex on here with you all, sex has been on my mind all the time!!! I just try to surround myself with sex, either on here, thinking naughty thoughts, wearing something sexy, just anything relating to that and it just seeps through my pores!! LOL!!! Maybe that in addition to a libido enhancer will work hella wonders for us ladies. I know I've been coloring just about every day, so I can't wait to see what some enhancing will do!!

LOL, before you know it there won't be anyone on LHCF!! You'll just hear crickets all up in here, with just the pregnancy thread full as all get out!!!

This is EXACTLY why we need a sex forum on this dang site! We are all grown women, I don't see WHY it's a problem. Didn't you have to put your birthdate info in when you get into the LHCF club? Can't we filter the youngins and still have a place for women to discuss these things? It doesn't have to be crass and disgusting.

Mods, I really don't understand what the problem is?!? As a married women, trying to keep my marriage interesting for my husband, what's the problem with having a forum to discuss this stuff with regular grown women in the same boat?
 
This is EXACTLY why we need a sex forum on this dang site! We are all grown women, I don't see WHY it's a problem. Didn't you have to put your birthdate info in when you get into the LHCF club? Can't we filter the youngins and still have a place for women to discuss these things? It doesn't have to be crass and disgusting.

Mods, I really don't understand what the problem is?!? As a married women, trying to keep my marriage interesting for my husband, what's the problem with having a forum to discuss this stuff with regular grown women in the same boat?

I concur with Krikit96
 
This is EXACTLY why we need a sex forum on this dang site! We are all grown women, I don't see WHY it's a problem. Didn't you have to put your birthdate info in when you get into the LHCF club? Can't we filter the youngins and still have a place for women to discuss these things? It doesn't have to be crass and disgusting.

Mods, I really don't understand what the problem is?!? As a married women, trying to keep my marriage interesting for my husband, what's the problem with having a forum to discuss this stuff with regular grown women in the same boat?

I AGREE!! I mentioned that on another thread, but more along the lines of a XXX forum. :yep: I really do think it's necessary as relationships and sex go hand in hand. So ladies, how do we get this naughty forum in motion. I'm still kinda new so I'm not sure of how things work. But whatever you all decided I support 1,000%!!! :grin:
 
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