weaveologist
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My mother tries to advice me a lot on relationships. She really puts emphasis on the fact that financial stability is more important than loving someone. She doesn't mean this literally. What she is basically telling me to do is refrain from constantly shewing away the financially supportive so quickly because they simply rub me the wrong way because I will "grow to love" them.
As I get older I start to realize the importance of having that 50% . . . Actually 65-90% is even better, but I digress . . . I also talk to many women that are in long -term relationships and/or are married and they seem to like their SO, or love their SO, but are not IN LOVE with their SO.
I just can't imagine being with someone for the rest of my life and not feeling romantically and emotionally connected with that person. But does married eventually become just a ritual?
I just recently ended a long - term relationship with my SO because I was really tired of not feelings like I was IN LOVE or like he was IN LOVE. We simply seemed to be putting up with each other because we were used to each other and no one wants to start all over.
So finally my question is for the ladies who are in long term relationships or married, are you TRUELY IN LOVE with your SO or do you just love him because you're used to him? Did you get with him and do you stay because of the financial stability?
As I get older I start to realize the importance of having that 50% . . . Actually 65-90% is even better, but I digress . . . I also talk to many women that are in long -term relationships and/or are married and they seem to like their SO, or love their SO, but are not IN LOVE with their SO.
I just can't imagine being with someone for the rest of my life and not feeling romantically and emotionally connected with that person. But does married eventually become just a ritual?
I just recently ended a long - term relationship with my SO because I was really tired of not feelings like I was IN LOVE or like he was IN LOVE. We simply seemed to be putting up with each other because we were used to each other and no one wants to start all over.
So finally my question is for the ladies who are in long term relationships or married, are you TRUELY IN LOVE with your SO or do you just love him because you're used to him? Did you get with him and do you stay because of the financial stability?