brownie said:I hear some saying carrying around the "V" card like it's a burden to unload. Maybe for some, but for me, I'm old-fashioned. I think it's a one-time gift. If I gave it to someone because I thought enough of them to do so, I'd be feeling someway awful and upset if I saw them the next day hanging around someone else; that's why I wouldn't take it lightly. I think some things in life should have some meaning. If you don't care about giving random "stuff" of yours away, what is sacred and how much do you value yourself? JMHO.
It definitely was for me. Gotta love when people feel a certain way about something and try to shame others who didn't feel that same way.
I actually agree. If you feel 100% good about your decision, of course, there should be no shame. I just wanted to show the opposite that being a virgin doesn't have to be shameful, or taboo either.
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