Oh my gods, I'm finally DONE with this thread!!!
I've read all 3,740 posts, and I'm more convinced than ever that I want to BKT.
OMG, Kiya, I can't believe you read every single page!
You are a woman on a mission!
Okay, first an introduction. I have fine, 100% virgin 4something hair - coils show up when I leave it alone, but I almost never do because the tangles and knots are SCARY.
I've been growing for a little over 4 years, and just recently cut it back to a little below shoulder from APL.
Honestly, I'm BORED with my hair. I'd like to wear it out and coily more, but with the knots and tangles, it's sooooo bad for my retention.
I also wanna color my hair, which I did at the start of my hair journey, and I think that I know enough about my hair now to be able to do it healthily.
I've also never used heat on my hair besides steam treatments. I was hennaing for a while, but I haven't done that in at least 6 months.
I know exactly what you mean! I honestly never had all that bad of hair care practices and I was natural for 14 years or so when I found LHCF. And I was barely SL
All the while I think it was the curly q's and single strand knots holding me back. This is where BKT really shines for me. I can cowash and wash n go daily and detangle my hair only once a week if I'm BKT'd down. Sans BKT? Oh forget about it. My hair will tangle and knot and act a pure fool if I tried anything like that.
Sooooo. After seeing Sheba's hair in another thread I started PM'ing her, and then decided to plunge into this thread, and after reading all the pro's and con's - I think I'm ready to take the plunge. The fact that I can use a KiyaFizzle to strip it if I totally hate it is a perk, too.
I think this will be the perfect way to strip it, should you decide.
I'm going to get the Izunami flat iron, lift and color at home (I'm very comfy with dying my own hair) - but I've no CLUE which BKT to get.
Sheba uses Global 2%. AtlantaJJ suggested QOD Gold. The Coppola treatment caught my eye. Basically, I want something that takes me from my current 75-85% shrinkage to something closer to 45-60% without too many fumes, and preferably in a same day washout formula. I don't plan on wearing it straight at all - I just want it colored, strong, and with less dry shrinkage.
I'm not sure how much help I can be here. I've only used Global and Dreamhair. Of the two I prefer Global. I love the way my hair looks and swangs with Dreamhair still in but it doesn't seem to give the protection or have the staying power that Global had.
Also on the hunt for the one I'll use next so we're in the same boat here, I think. I'm still open to trying the Rejuvenol, Lacio 1 day, QOD gold or Global with Juvexin
Yeah... as you can see I haven't quite narrowed it down
I do know that as much as I love BKT I don't need it as much as I thought as long as I'm in my growth phase and keeping my hair protected (braided). I will depend on it a lot more once I'm at goal, however, to keep my hair straight with roller sets and silk wraps and to avoid SSKs and tangles while I rock braid outs, twist outs, wash n gos and the like.
ETA: Also, I don't use shampoo. I clean my hair with ayurvedic herbs (amla, shikaiki, fo-ti) mixed in with conditioner. Based on what I've read, using these might strip it off faster? If so, any suggestions for a GENTLE shampoo that I can use, or could I continue to mainly co-wash and shampoo infrequently?
You know, Kiya, I gave up my ayurvedic tea rinses at first, also, but I started using them (mixed with conditioner) for cowashes while I had the BKT and my hair faired quite well. You may have to apply more often (let's say once every 3 months instead of once every 6 months) but I think you'll be fine. Ordinarily I'd say henna should be ok also (providing there was enough time to restore moisture/protein balance in between hennas and BKT) but I know you'll be coloring and I'm not sure you'll want to mix those.
So, ladies - brand suggestions? Price isn't a huge issue but I do need a brand that I don't need a license to buy.
Again, I'm no help here... le sigh... I think I love them all
No matter which one you decide on, however, you should be able to get it via ebay if not directly from the seller/manufacturer.
I'm also pretty comfy with TOTALLY messing my hair up and having to cut and start over.
Kiya, girlfriend, you are definitely ready for a change. You don't start saying stuff like that til you're like, "whatever, just give me something different!"
I don't think you'll totally mess it up. I think you'll have a great and wonderful hair adventure and come out with something you love a bunch on the other side
Thanks for any help/suggestions/recommendations/words of wisdom.
K.
One thing I wish I'd known in the beginning that I didn't figure out until much later is that too much of any good thing is still bad. Please don't BKT, decide that you lurrrve it
and start BKTing errr weekend.
It's happened! It happened to me
I believe BKT is awesome and should be used responsibly. When it's all said and done I don't think anyone needs to BKT any more than every other month (which is really the most I'd recommend). I think once every 3 to 6 months is a more responsible way to use the product.
I hope you enjoy it. I can't wait to hear of your adventure. Please feel free to ask me any question that comes to mind either hear or PM.
Good luck, Kiya